Broom Hilda strikes again
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Broom Hilda strikes again
| Mon, 03-10-2008 - 5:06pm |
Why can't she just go away? Does anyone have any anti-witch spray? Her presence gives me an unbearable rash.
So the good, positive news first! I could not go with him (Blue Eyes)to Vegas to help his daughter move. It was too short of notice for me to pick up and leave. Blue Eyes surprised me by calling his (fully capable twenty something year old)

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Yeah, he is a funny one.
Yes! You are right! BE is non confrontational and I had a really good talk with him last night. Not a finger pointing blaming talk at all- just an open talk about how I understand some people to be takers and take advantage of others good hearts and how these people can manipulate.
Mark mentioned co-dependancy..a need he has to be needed. There are a lot of examples in his life of people who I see taking him for granted because in some way he does get something out of it- some kind of satisfaction when he fulfills their needs. I've seen it a lot- he will give money over and over to those who never repay, he is always there for so many even when they just keep sucking the energy out of him.
His best friends wife is also a major manipulator. BE has been a friend to her for years, someone she can talk to. This never bothers me because their relationship has always been brother/sister like- completely. But lately she
SO GLAD the results are good. Yay!!
As far as the decision goes- I know that it must be difficult. I know it would be for me- and I am even SURE I'm not having anymore. I know that with SEV with you, your decision will be wise and he will be supporitve. I am so glad he is in your corner!!
That trip to Mexico sounds so awesome! When are you going?
You know I have to say that it made me feel a bit queasy for a minute since the prince is 'my rock' and I often have turned to him for guidance and support (never financially) and even have to admit a shoulder to cry on (i think when my grandfather passed). However, we have a long history and he can turn to me in the same way (even though he NEVER would - hes a big strong man you know). And thats the difference, our history. Seems to me BE doesnt have a 'history' only a few incidents to speak of.
Thanks M!
I love what you said! Tarnished or not mine is the only crown in his castle....where do you come up with such great things to say???
And yeah- the muzzle thoughts go through my mind. It is a good thing I don't know where she lives...just kidding!
No problem...glad i can add to the support network. On coming up with it...who knows. Sometimes I go back and read and re-read to make sure i dont sound like a horses a$$. One of my best was for one of my dearest friends and she was going through a few really bad years. I mean rougher than I think I would have EVER been able to handle. A very nasty break up that included a house and they were never married so it was really sticky, her father was diagnosed with Cancer and she brought him home to live with her until he passed, some health issues arising from the bad break up mentioned before....an entire list to lengthy to go into really but the words i had for her and i think they hold true for anyone going through any type of 'bad' situation (you included in this one with broomhilda - side note- thats what I refer to myself as lately since ive gone grey due to my ex carrot pants and no longer will refer to myself as since i know theres one out there and shes awful)...ok enough yammering already...
"sometimes you need a truck load of manure dumped into your life so see what beautiful things will grow from it. Right now its your truck load and in time you are going to have a beautiful garden to enjoy for the rest of your days so pull up your boots and get through it!"
I hope you enjoyed those pearls of wisdom...
(((HUGS)))
M
"sometimes you need a truck load of manure dumped into your life so see what beautiful things will grow from it. Right now its your truck load and in time you are going to have a beautiful garden to enjoy for the rest of your days so pull up your boots and get through it!"
M- those are true words of WISDOM! Believe me- next time I get hit in the face with Hilda's Broom I will be saying that to myself. It is so true! I mean, when I get through B HILDA
When we go (maybe April, definitely November), I will most certainly bring back pics!
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