Bully x's 2...

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Bully x's 2...
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Tue, 04-29-2008 - 9:10am

So last night CP called to leave a threatening message about seeing DD today. "its me...im calling to see if you are bringing her tomorrow or do i have to take you to court again. call me back" So i call back and say no you were drunk and i need you to call my lawyer...so he starts ranting and i hang up. He calls back and i say im telling you to stop calling me and call my lawyer and he starts mother-f-ing me up and down and i hang up. So the messages start rolling in..F- this F you You B****. Then the scathing message from his wh*** screaming at me and F-ing me and F-ing this and if i can prove he was F-ing drunk she'll eat her f-ing words and they are getting married in a few weeks and get the F over it. SO i called my lawyer at 7pm last night and he called back at 8 and told me to have my number changed today. If i get one more call to go to the police station and get a restraining order. Im sick to my stomach at this point...i left it all, she got everything she wanted and its still going on. Its as if they cant be happy unless they completely break me...and believe me im starting to feel little cracks. All i want is to keep DD safe and that means keeping her away from him and its

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Registered: 12-27-2006
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 12:18pm
((Hugs)) ITA with Mike! DOCUMENT EVERYTHING! No answers...just love snd protect your ddd! She is lucky...she has YOU!!!

~~Tiny


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~Karen
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Registered: 10-10-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 12:41pm

Everyone here (and your lawyer) has given good advise.

April

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:02pm

((((HUGS))))


I wish I could say more, sweetie. I just feel for you and wish I could send you some comfort and make sure you know it will all work out. Your entering the thick and the heat of the battle and I know this is the hard part. The only thing is that at least you can remind yourself that all his bullying and lashing out is due to his own feelings of guilt and defensiveness. If he was sane and reasonable and without issue or fault, he would not be acting like this.


The wench needs to stay the heck outta your business, too. She has no right! Hang in there- you're amazing and strong and wise and wonderful and doing it all for that precious bundle of love who adores you. She is lucky to have you as mom, M.


Love and wishes~

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:26pm

All I can say is - what a couple of j@ckasses!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:39pm

STAY STRONG. I cannot TELL you the threats of court, bodily harm, stealing her from school, ... etc ... that I

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:46pm

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 3:50pm

I can't add anything to top the advice already given!

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