Call from the Ex

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
Call from the Ex
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Wed, 02-27-2008 - 4:19pm

So, I just got off the phone with my ex.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 4:42pm
I so vote for continueing with the phone and emails.
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 4:45pm

You're right - although I know my x has NO desire to rekindle ANYTHING, thank GOD!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2006
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 5:05pm
Sorry to hear about this....I fear my ex is going to have to be forced to pay CS as well because he is never contributing anymore and the bills just mount if I am not super careful...
I think if I were you I would just say as simply as possible that although in the future you certainly wouldnt rule it out, you are going to have to keep super busy working for this period to pay these bills and with all of the other stuff like the kids and their schedules, you just dont know how you could manage a sit down right now. Why should you have the burden of paying off all of these things waiting for him to manage his life better AND do him the favor of gracing him with a friendly sit down with your charming self?
HUGS over there !!
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Registered: 10-10-2007
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 5:07pm

My DD step mom wanted me to be their friend for the longest time--inviting me to her baby showers and for new years parties and so forth--it was crazy!

April

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Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 5:13pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 5:16pm

Hey you - thanks for the encouragement!


I can't imagine becoming 'friends' with any future step parent of my children's, but I guess never say never, right?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2007
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 5:23pm

NOOO--I just ignored the invites and they stopped!

April

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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 5:41pm

I can't imagine becoming 'friends' with any future step parent of my children's,


After Blue Eyes and I got serious I met his exw..she was at his daughters birthday party. She lovingly refers to me to her other family members as

~Pacific~

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