Calling all opinions

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2007
Calling all opinions
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Tue, 09-25-2007 - 11:12am

I am mainly a lurker here and love reading all of your stories.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 11:18am

No more contact. He does not deserve another breath. He has already had a year of your time and it is clear you did not get the attention you need from him and it is time for you to move on. I would not answer any more calls or texts from him. DONE! NEXT!

WELCOME!! Glad to have you delurk!! :-)

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 11:52am

Hey Angie! (nice name! ;-) )


I say to NEXT him and don't look back! He's waffled for the whole time you dated- what makes you (or HIM) think things would be different if you gave it another shot? He's just feeling lonely now and he can just KEEP being lonely on his own, without dragging YOU along!


You can find someone who can meet you halfway in what you are looking for- and not leave you hanging as much as he has. Or better- HAD. If it's a relationship you want, then you deserve to have someone who is THERE for you, and is INTO you, and is wanting to spend more time with you than these "just out of the blue" get-togethers.


If you aren't wanting any regular relationship and you're okay with a once-in-a-while date, then he might be okay to string along. But for sure there isn't going to be a regular relationship there with him, if he's been so hit-or-miss all this time already.

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2006
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 6:27pm

Welcome, welcome!


We love lurkers!


I would say for me, I wouldn't contact him anymore.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2007
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 8:23pm

Thank you girls!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 11:32pm

Hi Angie,


Welcome to the board.


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Registered: 11-03-2003
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 11:25am

I think the 'vote' is unanimous - ignore him.