Canned Beer Guy!

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Registered: 03-10-2008
Canned Beer Guy!
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Tue, 06-10-2008 - 12:50pm

So update on canned beer guy. We have been doing well and bless his heart he bought beer in a bottle for our movie night at his house last night! I thought that was very sweet of him. We get a long great but I am worried I am a rebound for him. He just got out of a 2 year relationship that he failed to give me full details on until recently. Kinda slowly but surely I am learning about him and his past. That is kinda how it goes with any relationship right? I guess I am just worried I am a rebound girl and no one wants to be that. I do enjoy the time we spend together

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 12:56pm

Hi Cutefont!


That was nice of him to think of you and get the beer in bottles :o)


As for the rebound issue, how long ago was the breakup with his ex gf? Was there a lot of drama...who broke up with who, and are they still talking? Those are things I would need to know if I was you, before getting more involved or intimate. Recent baggage could be heavy, and who needs that? Can you keep things light and just hang out, get to know him more while finding these things out?

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 5:39pm

"...and he mentioned sex..."


How did he bring it up?


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Registered: 03-10-2008
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 6:05pm

Well we were just having a open frank talk about how long it had been for both of us and about having more children or not having more children in my case!!!! ..that stuff. And he had said something about what protection we would use IF we were to become intimate so he could be prepared if I have a preference, I guess since I was picky about beer in a can he figured I would have a condom preference hahaha!

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 6:20pm

Ok- I can get that LOL!


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Registered: 03-10-2008
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 6:22pm
Not long enough if you ask me! I just found out he has only been broke up for 3 months and they had post break up sex a month and a half ago! UGH. So that makes me nervous as well! UGh!
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 6:29pm

Post breakup sex too?


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Registered: 12-06-1998
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 5:14am

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ROFLOL That made me laugh! Thoughtful on his part though ;o)
It's nice he supplied bottled beer too.
It does sound a bit to close to his previous relationship doesn't it. He sounds like a nice guy though & it's good you can talk openly.

 



Tracy

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 10:00am

Here's my view on this...