Comfortable is romantic
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| Mon, 01-05-2009 - 1:19am |
So DF and I have definitely hit that comfortable stage. He says to me tonight, "I know this is the least romantic thing to say but I haven't slept that good in so long. The was possibly the best sleep of my life." So I'm laughing and agree that the sleep was just amazing (the nakie time was too.) He and I are early risers but we both could have slept three or four more hours. And we slept in (we are usually out of bed by seven and we slept til nine today.)
So when I started thinking about it maybe it is kinda romantic. I think it speaks to the level of trust we have and how comfortable we are together that when we sleep with each other we sleep better than we do apart.
Anyone else at or past this stage and agree? I've never felt so comfortable with anyone- not even my ex husband.


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I have what I call an easy compatibility with CM that I treasure. I would much rather sleep with him, than alone, but he has issues with my bed....to short for him. lol. Aside from the sleeping arrangements, we are very comfortable with each other in general. I don't have to fill the silence that sometimes happens when we are driving somewhere. I've learned that its OK to just BE. I suspect alot of the comfortable feelings come from being older this time around. The pressure to get married, have kids, keep up with the Jones' isn't there any more. We are who we are and accept each other like that!
Enjoy!
~b~
Yep -I'm totally with you on the comfortable thing.
I completely agree!!
I love how warm and comfrting that stage feels. I'm there with BE as well, even though the chmistry and fire still burns hot. I just love feeling comfortable...it is the best right?
I love this line "the sleep was just amazing"
Man, can I relate to that!!! Having exh try to sleep with his arm around me felt more like a dead weight than anything comfortable. I got to the point where I preferred my own side of the bed thank you very much. And we won't even talk about his snoring!! I spent many nights on the couch cuz I couldnt get him to stop! CM cuddles for as long as I want before sleep or after nakie time, whenever. I often wake up during the night when he rolls over and puts his arm around me and pulls me close. LOVE THAT!!! wish that happened more often!!
~b~
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