Comical call from medic + update...

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Comical call from medic + update...
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Sun, 09-07-2008 - 8:06am

So, I get a call from my medic yesterday morning.. I've been blogging unlike I ever have before and I think he's been reading them.. which is fine. If I wanted them private I'd make them private ya know? So, I did not tell him about heartbreaker.. no sense in trying to play the jealous card or anything like that. However, I told him what a wonderful week I've been having getting out of my funk, stepping off the roller coaster ride.. ect.


Well, he was taken back by it all and said that he was very surprised considering how attached I was to him. I said listen, I gave you exactly what you asked for and you shut the door, now I've shut mine. You want to start this back up where we left off tomorrow I'm game.. but for now my door is closed. Did you expect me to sit at home and cry all week over you? He said well no.. but yah. (LOL made me laugh) so apparently he's a bit hurt that I'm not mourning my loss of he who is Medic!


We had a nice talk about what went wrong and such.. it was a great talk. He also said that he really does not want to stop seeing me, he just wants to take some huge steps back.. and I said thats fine, I'm still your biggest fan.


Also, I told Medic about the girl that I work with that used to work with his ex-wife and he FLIPPED out! Funny how he used my exact terms "This is all just to close to home" I said well yah I felt the same way. He was like listen, I don't want the grief, I can't handle the grief from her. All I know is that they fought a lot.. so I have no clue if she would cause me grief or not.. but I'll respect his wishes and keep things on the down-lo when it comes to work.


As for heartbreaker.. I sent him a text that its unexpected.. but I'm free Sunday (today) and I'd like to be able to have a sober social hang out and talk w/him. Never heard back.. and that was yesterday afternoon. Sigh. Who knows.. all of that just could have been drunken ramblings.


Heartbreaker turned 40 in August.. I'm sensing Michelle got yanked into a mid-life crisis that could still be in motion.. who knows. But the update on Heartbreaker is that there unfortunatly is no update :(

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Sun, 09-07-2008 - 1:18pm
Hmmmmmm so Medic wanted you home pining away even though he wants a break from the relationship.
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Sun, 09-07-2008 - 4:22pm

Blah! I think Medic should get a good kick in the pants! He didn't want to be with you, but sure as heck thought you should be crying at home and pining for him? BLARG!!!

I wouldn't have told him I was game again for something so soon- even if I was feeling it. He's gotta EARN that again Michelle! Otherwise he'll pull the same stunt over and over, thinking that "she'll SAY she's closing the door, but I can open it no problem".

Slam that door in his face and give him a bloody nose in the process!

He pushed and pushed til you gave in. Then he stopped with the pretense of going over his minutes? And the whole break-in scenario: well, who needs a guy who's bigger concern is his minutes and not the safety/ well being of his friend??? Not to mention there could be added drama with the ex wife and her friend, what are you on: Jerry Springer's Trauma Ward?

Better off without this one.

The boy

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Sun, 09-07-2008 - 5:49pm

I agree with Alison on this one. While I know you enjoy Medic & his company (when things are going well)... I think the drama and frustrating heartache from the games/rollercoastering... is more than you deserve to put yourself through. More stress than you need in your life!


Not being able to "be free" with the relationship while at work? That alone is a touchy thing anyway. I'm not sure how Isysmoon handles that one herself. I wouldn't want to have to hide anything just because it's work.


Did he even ASK you now, how you are doing since the suspected break-in? I say suspected only because it wasn't like you were there and attacked- just that your house was "goldilocks-ed" while you were gone. But he was so self-centered back then when it happened... did he even ask about it now, to check up on you? Or did he completely forget all about that?


I don't know... there's something about a man who is busy & has to juggle scheduling, but there's also something about a man who at least still CARES for you, and not just himself when you interact with him.

~shrimpy


It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Sun, 09-07-2008 - 9:49pm

I'm sorry Michelle, but I am no longer a big Medic fan.


Remember Cat and BG? He did the same sad story. Put her at a distance, then when she went on with her life (the AUDACITY!) her got all hurt and wondered why wasnt waing by the phone. They want their cake (freedom) and to be abloe to eat it too (have you waiting). Sorry....we as busy, strong single women don't roll like that!! Let him get some other girl hooked on his pole while he put her on hold. You need to go swim about the big happy man filled pind my friend!!

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