confused

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Registered: 01-02-2008
confused
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Wed, 01-02-2008 - 9:58pm

I'm new here to ivillage. I've been dating a guy for 3 months now. We are getting along great. He is divorced with no kids. Been divorced for awhile; I don't think he's been with someone for a while. I'm recently divorced so this is a bit scarry for me. Don't want to make same mistakes. Plus i've got 2 young kids which he's met. Seems to accept them. anyway, i'm confused about this dating experience. it doesn't seem to be like when i was younger. we only talk on the phone about 1-2 times a week and see each other about 1 time a week. is that normal? when we are together we have a good time and he seems interested in me. we haven't become sexually intimate but seem to be headed that way. i'm scared about that b/c i really like him and i'd rather wait until i'm sure how and what he feels about me. why doesnt he seem to want to spend more time w/me? i really want to keep his interest . i figure he's probably a bit scared too. after all he not only has to figure if he likes me but my kids too.

help!

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Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: mom_sweet71
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 10:23pm

Hey, Mom.

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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: mom_sweet71
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 11:49pm

Great post, Moony!


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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: mom_sweet71
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 11:55pm

Hi Mom_sweet, welcome to the board.


I know the dating thing is new for you, but you'll have to get used to communicating if you're going to get a good handle on it.


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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: mom_sweet71
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 6:08am
Great post, Moon!!!! I agree!!