Confused & Dont Understand

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Registered: 06-11-2009
Confused & Dont Understand
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 10:49am

I'm completely lost on this i don't know what to do. I've known this guy for about 2-3 years now. we were dating then became friends because at the time he lived far away and i met someone else who lived closer to me. so i started dating this other guy was with him for a year and have a son to him. i haven't been with him for over a year now. I'm ready to meet someone and start dating. so my friend came back into the picture again wanting to try things out and see where they go. this time around is different i started falling for him and seems like his kisses are more i don't know the word to say meaningful their just different from before. i have more feelings and emotions towards him now. He is going through alot right now working 2 jobs and find a place for him and his son to live. i totally understand he has alot on his plate and he works alot to make $$ to get things done. i told him i understood that and now all the sudden he stopped texting me. so i called him instead multi times and still no answer. so i had my friend texted him to see if she got an answer and she did but yet he wont text me.

i don't understand if someone waited almost 3 years for you that they all the sudden want nothing to do with you. am i reading this wrong or what? I'm so confused and i don't know what to do. I've tried as much as i can. should i back off and leave him alone? should i just move on? i have no idea what to do i really started falling for him and it hurts really bad.

please i need advise!

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 11:48am

I'm sorry you don't have any answers from him, but I think his message is clear: he's no longer interested.