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| Mon, 04-30-2007 - 12:03pm |
Hi All,
How was your weekend.... Mine was AWESOME... not because of meeting guys, though. The best part of this weekend was that my son (7 years old) was baptized on Sunday. Yay!!! He and I always talk about the Bible and God... last week I thought to myself he's old enough to say the prayer and get baptized. He was more than willing and when we went to church, they were doing water baptism that after noon. My son was very excited. So we spontaneously road the shuttle bus to the pool where the baptisms were and my son got baptized.
And I'm happy to say that I didn't miss an opportunity to meet someone at the baptisms. There were quite a few handsome guys also getting baptized. On the bus ride back... the gentleman sitting in the same row as me started up a conversation. He didn't appear to have any family with him on this special day. He said "I just realized today is also my dad's birthday." I said "Congratulations." Then a little while later he said "I used to be a bus driver." That's when I thought to myself.. "I should make conversation with him." He was good looking. So I started asking him questions.. like how long have you been coming to this church... after he said he used to be a bus driver I asked and what do you do now. He's in the navy and in the choir. I said.. I've always wanted to join the choir because I love to sing. Not sure if he's married (but if he was, where was his wife at his baptism...?) But he did mention that he has two little children ages 2 and 3 that don't live with him. I'm sure I'll see him around church. It may not have been a "connection" but I'm happy with myself that I was open and friendly.
My other new guy is someone who warrants a nickname.... perhaps BeachGuy because he loves the water and lives near the beach. I've met BeachGuy before about 8 months ago (before my divorce). I think he looks liKe Colin Farrell. Very Hot!! Tall, too. But since I wasn't officially divorced the last time we met (and other smaller stuff), it didn't quite go anywhere... BUT this time, he seems much more interested. BirdieGirl and I were out and about on Saturday. We end up at our fave karaoke hangout and run into BeachGuy. I saw him a couple weeks ago, too. I greeted him like an old friend, gave him a hug... but he left early. I've kinda thought that he wasn't interested in anything more than friendship.. and I was cool with that... BUT I love messing with him since he's cute.
Anyway, this past Saturday, he showed some real interest. Birdie and I were sitting at a table and he came over and asked if he could join us. He said, "I'm not intruding, am I?" or something like that... I moved over and said, have a seat. We had a fun time... And here's the big joke, the last time I saw him he said, he went away for a while... and I thought that meant he was in jail. LOL. So, I asked him about it and that was NOT what he meant. LOL. He was visiting his sister in Cali. He's got the badboy look and I was just making sure he wasn't really a bad guy. Turns out he's like any other guy just looking for a good woman.
Sunday ... HE called. He invited me for a walk on the beach. I agreed. But we ended up just talking the whole time at his house. He's really smart with money and business. He owns his own car mechanic shop. And he just bought a boat... he said he'll have to take me out on it. He has a 6 yr old son who means the world to him. And he's 28. Then at the end of our date he asked... what do I think about a church going girl and a guy like him? I told him I thought honesty and integrity are most important to me right now. I don't like manipulators or fake people, I like being real and having a fun time. On paper, he doesn't sound so bad... but he has tatoos so that makes him look like a bad boy. And at this stage, it's too early to tell if he's been truthful or if he'll turn out to be a jerk. But so far, I had a great time.
There was sooo much more that went on this weekend but this post has already gotten long. Thanks, as always, for listening.
Loonybunny

Wow - it is so fun that you were even looking around at the Baptism - way to go! And you are getting out there and having fun.
I kind of like BeachGuy - and tattoos are okay as long as they aren't "sleeves" - remember our post from a week ago?
Keep us posted! Thanks for your bubbly updates. You are a good example to us all. How do you stay so sane with 5 kids? You have to give us your tips!!
Loony, your weekend sounds wonderful.
I really like what you write about the ChurchBus guy. Not that he's a potential match, but that you made a conscious effort to make conversation and chat. Whether it turns into anything or not, he's now someone else oyu can talk with at church, and a possible friend.
BeachGuy sounds promising, I like that he called you right away. Hopefully it won't take long for you to either find out if he's "that into you", and realize whether or not you'r into him. The earliest stages are the worst in dating, I think.
Moody, sending sunny Monday vibes to everyone
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Thanks for giving ChurchBus guy a nickname....lol. I have a feeling I'll see him around... what a story that would be to say we met on his baptism... but that's getting WAY ahead of myself. Yes, he's someone I can say hi to at church and IF he was at all interested in me... he know's where to find me. We'll see.
The early stages of dating can be both fun and nerve racking. I'm trying to focus more on the fun than the nerves...lol. Not always easy.....
Glad to hear things are going so good with funnyguy and you.
>>How do you stay so sane with 5 kids? You have to give us your tips!!<<
I don't know the answer to that one... to tell you the truth. I know that I don't feel guilty about getting a sitter and having some "me" time. In all areas of my life, I try to enjoy the moment and reflect on the positives. I used to feel like having 5 kids was a huge "red flag" for most guys. But now my attitude is.... I have 5 kids AND I am a sane person... that must mean that I'm a well adjusted, responsible, and well put-together GOOD woman... any guy would be blessed to be a part of it. I've come a long way... thanks again to everyone here for the great support.
Love,
Loonybunny
WOW, seriously! 5 Kids and such a positive attitude, I love it! Congrats on the great weekend...here is to a great week!
"But now my attitude is.... I have 5 kids AND I am a sane person... that must mean that I'm a well adjusted, responsible, and well put-together GOOD woman... any guy would be blessed to be a part of it. " Amen sistah! :) I commend you on looking at yourself in that light. It's the truth and any man that is man enough will love all that you just listed along with the 5 kids. It has taken me a while to think of myself in the same light but now that I do, I'm happier with myself and the choices I make.
Churchbus guy and Beachguy sound very promising. Keep up posted!
Jennifer