Course of Action?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2007
Course of Action?
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Thu, 12-13-2007 - 1:30pm

My sister is also a single Mom.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 1:34pm
I agree with your advice to her and think she should definitely start making an effort to date others MORE and to not be nearly so available to him as she has been. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, which some men need to realize what they have and also she doesn't want to get attached if he is not sure. She should be dating more unless they agree to exclusivity.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 1:47pm

I have to agree with West on this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2007
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 2:16pm
Thanks.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 2:23pm
I agree with the others.
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2007
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 2:24pm

This is what I suspect as well.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 2:33pm

Hey - I hadn't dated more than one person at a time either until this fall.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 2:41pm

I'm in agreement with the others as well. The guy is trying to have his cake and eat it too. That would be fine if he was dating someone who was also dating around but your sister is not. I would feel really wierd in that situation and personally after a couple of months I would be ready for him to either be exclusive with me or else I would just have to move on. I agree she needs to put those dating shoes back on.

~Pacific~
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 12-13-2007 - 3:36pm

"I also think it's kind of careless for him to invite her over and introduce her to his DD while he's still "looking"..JMHO!"

YES Pacific - good point!!!