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Court in the AM & everyone was right ...
| Wed, 01-31-2007 - 9:11am |
X never did go see the Pysc (as far as I know, b/c the guy said he would notify me IF X called him .... AND,


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I know. If I perservere, SOMETHING has got to eventually be done to protect Averey.
You poor thing - sorry to hear you are so stressed with all of this right now. But I do think your therapist has good words - you will persevere.
I don't think I would drive her over there - I think I would make him pick her up and then you can pick her up from his house. Stop doing favors/errands for him and trying to be nice. I think that sometimes the nicer we are, the more they are jerks?
I would not give him a reason for not dropping her off - I would say DD is looking forward to seeing you - she will be ready at XX:XX time for you to pick her up. And if he shows fine and if he doesn't fine.
I also think you should hang up on him when he is rude. But you have probably tried all of this.
It is good you stood up to him last night. I think in time he will learn he can't walk all over you - that you will set a boundary and it will get easier. But it will take a lot of work.
This story makes us all appreciate that our exes aren't so bad.
No wonder your DD freaks when you say you want to date - she probably thinks all men are like this.
Was he always like that? I mean, I guess not at the beginning? He tricked you!!
Edited 1/31/2007 8:04 pm ET by cl-west1745
Please know that we are all going to be rooting for you tomorrow, okay? Try to look at it like one more step - not the final step. And come back and tell us the story when you get time.
WE ALL WISH YOU ALL OF THE BEST!!! (((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))
- may the good mom win!!
- NO BULLY - NO MORE!
Rebecca- You poor thing! Hugs to both you and Averey.
You're not "acting like Daddy", by the way. you're acting like Mommy with an overfull plate, on medication that she hasn't gotten used to, and stressing. That's okay, and normal.
DO NOT beat yourself up over this!
Averey knows you love her, and she's too young to understand all of what you're going through, but I'm sure she picks up on the stress. Probably why she's being whiny and difficult. Kid have an uncanny knack for doing this at the WORST possible times.
Keep on keepin' on, you're doing great! And we're all here for you!
Moody, sending peaceful, easy feelin' vibes
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