Creepy guy is so outta here
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| Sat, 03-26-2005 - 9:53pm |
So I gave the guy who bought me a sewing machine and calls me babe, and sweetheart another chance. We went out on our SECOND date. Yep, only one date in the bag and he's calling me loving names and asking about sleeping arrangements. The date went fine. He tried to buy me jewerly at the mall, which of course I refused. No kiss at the end, which I was grateful for. After that, I just figured this might be okay. He'll grow on me. Who'd of thought that at 26 I could still be naive. So anyway, to try to make a long story short, he's a big mouth. My coworker is dating one of his coworkers. (which is why we were set up) He told his coworkers some things that I supposely said about my coworker. Calling her very bad names. Think garden utensil. Which, of course I never said. I confronted him about it over the phone, and he denied it. I told him I was warned to be wary about him and he stated if I wanted to end this then end it. So I told him to have a nice life and I hung up. He called back, left a message wanting to talk things out and said if I was willing to call him. TWENTY minutes later, he called left a voice mail stating he got his answer and he wouldn't call me again. the next morning I received a phone call from him with no voicemail. Later that afternoon, he called again and left a voice mail. He wanted to talk, he wanted to hear my voice again. I haven't called or had even a bit of desire to call since then. I'm so over that. The crazy thing is, that I figured since he was 7 years older than me, he'd be mature. Well now ladies, I'm back on the prowl, looking for someone low key. I really hate dating.
Shannon

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I think you should make a big point of putting all the unwanted things in the garbage outside your home
You know, my ds's son wasn't even a creep. I just didn't want to marry him. I didn't love him in a "love for a lifetime" way, and I broke up with him while I was pregnant.
He would show up at my job (nothing creepy about that. We were together for nearly 2 years. He knew where I worked) and leave flowers and cards and stuff in my vehicle. I would pick them up, set them in the parking lot, and drive away. I'd asked him not to keep giving me stuff and he kept trying. Then he'd call and ask if I got them. And I let him know where they were, if he wanted to go get them.
Point being, if you don't want "stuff" from someone as a way of buying your affection do NOT take it into your possession. Just get rid of it. Putting it on the curbside for the next time Mr. Creepy drives by might be effective.
Becky,
That is a great idea. I will go ahead and do that tonight. and especially since tomorrow is trash day it'll be really convenient. If he see them, great. If not, and someone takes the ideas, more power to them. Atleast they are not in my possession.
Shannon
should read it is
http://www.mary.com/articles/view.html?aid=50&
maybe your date has read this and if so you
should lose him!!!
holy moly....
Aw man!! The guy is a TOTAL CREEPSHOW!!! Tell the guy next time he calls that you do not want to talk to him again, that if he calls again you will call the police because he is harrassing you and THAT IS ILLEGAL!!!
Better yet, just have the police drop by his house to tell him to stop themselves.
Do you have caller ID? You could just screen your calls and not pick up, or allow the machine to get all calls- just tell your friends and family to start talking and you'll pick up. So either you tell him straight out not to call again, or you just screen your calls until he stops calling.
Is he calling you at work? Tell your boss right away about the guy, maybe he/she could get on the phone and tell him to stop bothering you. Either way, you should let your boss know so that they can help you resolve the situation, I wouldn't want you to get fired cause the creep keeps calling and interupting you at work.
But you shouldn't give him the time of day, the more you DO talk to him, the more he will think he has a chance to change your mind. The person who told you to just talk to him- doesn't have a CLUE how these weirdos work. You can be saying NO NO NO, and all they know is that you're talking to them. Tell this person to tell HIM to stop bothering you.
I really hope that this ends soon, for you sanity's sake.
((((HUGS))))
Alison
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