CRIPES! you should ALWAYS be prepared!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
CRIPES! you should ALWAYS be prepared!
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Sat, 01-06-2007 - 12:01am
b/c you NEVER know who you may meet!

I met this guy tonite, totally out of the blue - this is his website ...

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sat, 01-06-2007 - 12:14am
FYI- for anyone ? Carlos ... yes, we are still going strong. BUT, there is still no real (verbal at least) "committment" of exclusivity ... so i am still "looking" per say- & he is aware. So nothing is behind his back. If he were to say "lets go for it & be exclusive" tomorrow, I would. But the balls in his court on that note.

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Registered: 04-23-2006
Sat, 01-06-2007 - 12:53am

I was just going to ask about Carlos! You're a strong woman! I need to learn more about this from women like you! Good luck!

--Vanessa

Vanessa
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Registered: 06-30-2003
Sat, 01-06-2007 - 12:17pm
Definitely, keep your options open. I love your upbeat attitude. My prediction is that you will find someone great who wants to be exclusive before Carlos gets off the fence. Carlos sounds like a fun, sexy guy, but not likely to commit. The good thing about the commitmentphobes is that they can be tremendous fun and they will hang on until you're ready to cut them loose. I mean, they will maintain a fun, casual relationship with you.
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Registered: 10-09-2006
Sat, 01-06-2007 - 2:24pm
Look at you e-mailing him! That's awesome. I mean really, why not? You should explore all of your options and have as much fun as you can. As for always being prepared, no kidding! The days you're looking like a supermodel there isn't a straight available man within a ten mile radius and the second you look like hell you're practically tripping over them!
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Sat, 01-06-2007 - 4:03pm
You are so funny!! We love your stories. The email idea is very good!