Darn one down and dunno about the other

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Darn one down and dunno about the other
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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 1:44am

Date with Jane was nice. She took me to this nice sushi place. The sushi was amazingly good. And the we double dated with my co-worker who has been doing eHarmony at a comedy club where he got free tickets. I thought the acts were mildly amusing and Jane enjoyed it more. She and my co-worker's date seemed to bond well. I did not feel any real chemistry even though we held hands again and hugged. I thought I would focus on enjoying her but I did not feel it. She works when she does not have her DD11 and is off when she has her. So next time we'll be doing the shared daughter date sometime... I'll do this for a couple of more times. I wish I can feel something more because she is a terrific woman.

I just an email from Lynn. "I apologize, but I'm feeling the desire/need to pull back. I'm not sure if it's a doubt about it being a good match, or if it's just feeling too intense and rushed. Maybe I just need to think about it for a little while. I know you were feeling "hopeful", so I'm sorry." I just made reservations for a date on Saturday. I WAS looking forward to it. I sent her an email saying "no worries" and that we can still do things or talk as friends without expectations but don't really think she is going to come back. I got that she was more closed than Cindy or Jane but she wanted to be more open as like CNDG so I was willing to be patient. I was disappointed but like I said it's all self selecting and it is meant to be then it'll happen.

Now no date for Saturday. :-(. Cindy is out of town this weekend.





We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb







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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 7:32am

I'm sorry things haven't gone your way dating-wise this week; I'm sure it's just temporary.

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Thu, 05-01-2008 - 8:27am

Mark--you have been a busy boy--maybe one night off will help you refresh a bit!

April

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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 9:00am

Oh! BUMMER Mark!

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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 9:04am
Aww Mark, I'm sorry...ITA with Rebecca on this....

~~Tiny


I want

~Karen
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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 10:30am

Acks - that kind of an email always leaves me feeling rejected - so I think I can have an idea of how it made you feel. But at least she was honest.

BUT, you do know that you have been enjoying "dating king of the year" status around here with so so many choices and dates in a week. Many of us have waited months and months just for ONE date.

So, if she feels not quite right - then poopoo to her - that means you just opened a slot on your dating card for another one. Or in your case with your good luck maybe 5 more!!

I think you are wise to wait and see if you have chemistry with Jane. Sometimes that takes a few dates to develop - and if you were on a double date to a comedy club - that may not be the exact ideal.

We have been most blessed with all of your stories - so you just have no choice now but to keep finding new ones to date!!!! You have spoiled us too.

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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 10:45am

Wow Mark!

Cat
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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 11:02am

Hang in there Mark, you are still doing great!!

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Registered: 09-26-2005
Thu, 05-01-2008 - 11:39am

Not to worry Mark, you're on a roll now, so don't worry things will pick up again.


Too bad, you're not in NY, I'd take you out to dinner myself :-)


Judy:


BUT, you do know that you have been enjoying "dating king of the year" status around here with so so many choices and dates in a week. Many of us have waited months and months just for ONE date.


IF I don't get a date by December, it will be 4 years since I've had a date ! I hold the record


here don't forget that :-)

The T Girl
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 05-01-2008 - 11:50am
Okay - yes - you do hold the record!! LOL!!
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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 12:46pm

I got this email back.

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