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| Sun, 12-11-2005 - 2:13pm |
Oh my goodness, I had such a wonderful time last night! I don't even know why I was so nervous! We have so much in common and he's so laid back and easy to talk to. It was if I had known him forever!
I went over to his house and he introduced me to his dad and his little boy, who is 8 months old. He's so adorable! Anyway...lol. I'm just very excited right now, but I AM going to just take it day by day.
When we got in his truck he reached in the back and handed me a little gift bag. He said that he got me something, that it wasn't a Christmas present, but just a little something b/c he knew I liked to sing. So, I opened it and he had gotten me a Faith Hill CD, which was very sweet of him.
We went out of town for dinner, about 25 miles away, and talked the entire time. We were going to eat at the Outback Steak House, but the wait was over 70 minutes, so we decided to try somewhere else. He mentioned a sushi/japanese restaurant, but didn't figure I would like that type of food. However, I surprised him b/c I LOVE sushi. So, he was taken aback by that and said that I was his kinda girl...lol. So we went and ate, then we went to the mall and walked around for a little bit and did some window shopping, and then we went to the movies. He had some choices of movies that he would like to see but said that it was really up to me b/c he just wanted me to have a good time. So, we ended up seeing Harry Potter...lol. After we got the tickets he said that he had wanted to see that movie and was glad that I had picked that one...lol.
We got to the movies a little early so we had plenty of time to talk some more. The movie was kinda long though and we didn't get out until a little past midnight.
We talked all the way back home. We have a lot in common. He loves to sing and I sing all the time. He has a recording studio in his home, he plays the guitar, and has even published 2 gospel songs. I kinda play the guitar and he offered to teach me so I can get better.
When he dropped me off he told me that he had a wonderful time, that he was just crazy about me, and if it would be okay could he call me tomorrow (Sunday). He said that he didn't want to bother me b/c he knew I was busy with school and my dd, but he would really like to talk to me some more. I was floored...lol. I told him that he wouldn't be bothering me at all and I would like him to call me. I gave him a hug and he kissed me on the cheek, which was very sweet to me.
I'm going to try very hard, like I said before, to not jump the gun here. I just think that he's very nice, easy to talk to, very handsome, and very sweet. I'm just really excited right now, especially since I was so nervous to begin with!
Kait

Kaitlyn I am so glad you had a nice evening out with a decent guy.
Oh Kait, I'm SOOO glad you had such a good time!
DD is doing really well right now, considering the whole ER fiasco. I'm going to talk to my lawyer tomorrow, take her to my doctor, and have the reports sent to my lawyer. I'm still very angry at my exh. I don't know if he's just ignorant when it comes to dd or what. But to make matters even worse is that his step-mom is a nurse and SHE should know better, you know.
As for the doc and his ex wife. They were married after only dating a few months. She's bi-polar and when she got pregnant she stopped taking her meds. She's a very sweet girl, but when she's not on her medication she goes crazy, for the lack of a better term. She started doing drugs, ran off with the baby, and ended up being placed in a mental institution for a long while. He talked her back into taking her meds and everything was good for a while, but then she just stopped taking them again. She also started running around on him, which hurt him really bad. He says that he's forgiven her for that, but he'll never be able to forget it, so he can't be with her. He says that he would never be with her again, and I believe him. He's got his life in order, and they've been separated for about a year, but only recently divorced.
She's really not stable at this point. The court has awarded him full custody of his son and she's only allowed supervised visitations. I know her, somewhat, and from what I've seen and what I know, she's not stable at this point. I don't really know a lot about people who suffer with a bi-polar disorder, but from what I do know, it can really get and be severe. I feel for him and his son, and I do wish that things would have been better for him. However, he's doing really well and seems to have moved past it. For his son's sake and hers, I really hope that she recovers and gets the help she needs.
He just called me a while ago and we're going to go to dinner tonight. He also mentioned getting together some time this week, probably closer to the weekend. We're not going to push anything or rush into anything. It's just fun to spend some time with someone who actually has a brain and knows how to use it...lol. I'll probably see him during the week, probably only once and just chat on the phone after that. I don't want to bombard him and I don't want to be bombarded, you know... One day at a time, have fun when I see him, and still be able to live my life, take care of my dd, and take care of my school work.
On a different note, I have an interview at a local bank on Tuesday. It's a teller job, only part time, but that would be so great for me right now...wish me luck!
Hugs,
Kait
Hey Kaitlyn.
Very good report - very good thoughts from you - and excellent about not jumping the gun. It is good you are busy with dd and the school.
It sounds like he respects you and has good intentions. Thumbs up - no flags to date - all good stuff - this is the story we all hope for.
Keep us posted!!