Date? I don't need no stinkin' date!!

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Date? I don't need no stinkin' date!!
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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 6:06pm

So there's this big party coming up hosted by someone at work. It looks like it will be great fun but I'm freaked out about going solo!


So I went down my phone list... Hmm who do I still like and things didn't get weird? LOL. So I sent HC a text "Need a date Sat. for a thing.. you up for it?" No reponse.. sigh. Maybe things got weird on his end? LOL. All I did was tell him that I needed more than he was willing or able to give. He said so does this mean you never want to see me again? I said no, I'd love to see you again.. just letting you know that I'm not really sure to what aspect we'll be seeing eachother.


So, no response.. and no other prospects and crud I don't wanna go solo! lol. I keep asking around for people I'm kind of tight with at work but it dosn't look like they'll be going.

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Go solo! Maybe you'll meet someone (or two)
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Registered: 09-26-2005

Go solo, I do it all the time (on the super rare ocassion that I go out).


You never know, it could work in your favor.

The T Girl
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Registered: 04-08-2003
I have learned to force myself ot go out solo. I've met some great potentials and had a few good dates. When nothing else panned out, I at least made one or two new aquaintances.
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 10:49am

Go solo!

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Sun, 10-12-2008 - 10:11pm
I know how you feel. My fill in guy (the guy friend who cleans up pretty and goes to events with you but is not boyfriend material) got married last April. I mean I know I could ask Ducks Fan now but at the time there was no Ducks Fan on my horizon.
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Registered: 07-28-2008
Sun, 10-12-2008 - 11:36pm

Lol... WELL...


Refresher.. HC became like a teenage boy playing the get in her pants game.. so I politely told him that I thought we were looking for different things and I'm going to back off a bit now. Well, we have not spoken since until I sent him the text about the party.


Wouldn't ya know as I sit here with the flu HC has msg'd me EVERY night for the past four nights hinting about coming over for sex? I joke you not. Oh well, I shouldn't even say hinting when one of the comments was "You know sex is a really good cure for the flu" Ugg.


What a turd.

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Sun, 10-12-2008 - 11:42pm

OMG what a jerk! That's not a hint that's an all out come on.

P.S. I hope you feel better.

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