Date tonight!

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Date tonight!
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Sun, 07-13-2008 - 7:46am

Ok, so the name for this guy is EASY! He'll be Medic lol.


So, I get this OLD msg from this guy and I'm like hmm not bad looking, somewhat familiar. I read his profile and I'm tempted to respond because I liked what he had to say. Then I look to see what he does for a living and it says Healthcare. So, after talking to him for a bit I find out he's a Paramedic, and teaches cert. classes and such which I loved to hear. (A lot in common there since I work in an ED, and used to be a trainer).


I was like ya know, you really do look familiar, and we've probably already met many times haha. So now I have this little fun buddy at work. I get text msg's saying "heading your way, meet me for coffee in the bowling alley" (thats what we call the coffee room lol). Its really cool, I like it! lol. I got a text this morning at 6:50am (my shift is over at 7am) saying "Morning Sunshine!" haha.


Well, so we're going out tonight and then back to his place to play guitar hero and drink the Rum that my ex-husband brought me from the Virgin Islands haha.


Awesome guy on paper, loving the text msg's, loving having tons in common.


Still have not heard from Hemmy.


Now, its time to sleep! lol


I'll be back to being a forum nut when my work stretch is over on Thursday :)

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."

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Sun, 07-13-2008 - 12:26pm
This one sounds fun and positive from what you write - can't wait to read your date report!! Are you going to wear the skirt your mom got you? LOL!! Although if I wore a skirt like that I know I would not be going into his house to play guitar hero!! Too dangerous!! :-D
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Sun, 07-13-2008 - 4:27pm

Now if you were going over there to play WOW that animal print top would be perfect!

Have fun, be a good girl now.

QB

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Sun, 07-13-2008 - 4:30pm

Yeah animal prints and hoochie mama skirt. THAT'll be a great first date outfit ... ;-)

Mark who loves seeing minis on those women with nice legs


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Mon, 07-14-2008 - 2:09am

Was that the date.. coffee in the break room or were you two going out again... i was going to ask for a date update and i got confused..lol....


how was the date? what did you wear??

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Mon, 07-14-2008 - 2:22am

It didn't happen.. for two reasons. And you guys are going to kill me. Medic seems like a really good guy, and I need to give him attention and get to know him.


However, KoH who if you recall was royally freaked out by the thought of dating (we're good friends now) called and asked me out for sushi earlier that day. Everything was fine, we're laughing like usual nothing was weird, he knew I had a date that night and was teasing me a bit. Then all of the sudden there was this crazy eye contact and I was like yah I need to go. He says yah you should go. It was one of those very mutual looks and KoH and I have like crazy chemistry.


I get home and there is an email from KoH that he's confused and really sorry yada yada.


So, Medic had gotten called into work, and was going to msg me 30 mins before he left. Medic gives me the heads up text that he's heading out, I text him back that I'm going to go get ready and boom I get a call from work that I need to come in. Sigh. I could of said no... but I felt like after what happened that day with KoH it wouldn't be fair to Medic to go out with him that night after getting a little shaken up by KoH.


Ugg I'm a mess lol. Medic is awesome, and I AM going to give him attention if he'll ever forgive me for cancelling on him at the last minute.


Oh, and btw the person I was called in for showed up about 20 mins after I got to work lol. I was like dude, you owe me a weeks worth of coffee! LOL

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Mon, 07-14-2008 - 2:29am

Interesting....


I'm sure Medic will understand that work called you in....


as for KoH... you sound like you have a great head on your shoulders... you are remaining his friend and letting him sort out his own confusion, while you continue to get out there and enjoy yourself. I'm sure that's part of his attraction to you... Continue what you are doing.... let him sort out his confusion on his own. Don't wait around or miss out on someone new.


looking forward to the rain check date story.


Loonybunny

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Mon, 07-14-2008 - 4:16am
Well *I* won't kill you ;o) I can TOTALLY understand what you did, I think I would have done the same!!! Men & dating do my head in! LOL

 



Tracy

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Mon, 07-14-2008 - 2:11pm

I get home and there is an email from KoH that he's confused and really sorry yada yada.


Soooo.....did you email him back? What did you say? I'm sorry I don't remember why KoH was NEXTed! Chemestry is a powerful thing!!

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Mon, 07-14-2008 - 3:09pm
KoH and I were a mutual next because his separation is way to new. He can't even handle a casual relationship right now. He's freaked out by even a kiss, even though he wants to. He's a good guy, I feel bad for him.. and its just all bad timing.
"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Mon, 07-14-2008 - 3:48pm

Oh I see. Well you were both smart to put the breaks on then.


Do you plan on making another date with medic?

~Pacific~
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