Date tonight!

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Date tonight!
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Sun, 07-13-2008 - 7:46am

Ok, so the name for this guy is EASY! He'll be Medic lol.


So, I get this OLD msg from this guy and I'm like hmm not bad looking, somewhat familiar. I read his profile and I'm tempted to respond because I liked what he had to say. Then I look to see what he does for a living and it says Healthcare. So, after talking to him for a bit I find out he's a Paramedic, and teaches cert. classes and such which I loved to hear. (A lot in common there since I work in an ED, and used to be a trainer).


I was like ya know, you really do look familiar, and we've probably already met many times haha. So now I have this little fun buddy at work. I get text msg's saying "heading your way, meet me for coffee in the bowling alley" (thats what we call the coffee room lol). Its really cool, I like it! lol. I got a text this morning at 6:50am (my shift is over at 7am) saying "Morning Sunshine!" haha.


Well, so we're going out tonight and then back to his place to play guitar hero and drink the Rum that my ex-husband brought me from the Virgin Islands haha.


Awesome guy on paper, loving the text msg's, loving having tons in common.


Still have not heard from Hemmy.


Now, its time to sleep! lol


I'll be back to being a forum nut when my work stretch is over on Thursday :)

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."

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Tue, 07-22-2008 - 6:29pm

Update on Medic:


Like I said he's wanting serious fast. He explained it a little better today that he's an all or nothing kind of guy. Either he's head over heels for a woman or he isn't, there's no middle ground. I can understand that, and I'm trying not to judge him. I just told him that he needs to understand where I'm coming from and understand that I'm feeling a little overwhelmed by all the attention. I had a horrible marriage for 6 years with someone who thought I was scum, and only a few very short good relationships since. So being showered with attention is great, but a lot to adjust to.


I think that Medic and I love the idea of eachother. Both of us being in the medical field, having so much in common. I'm trying not to get wrapped up in his fantasy land and let it all play out a bit slower on my terms. I still want to check out HC and see whats there still!


Gah, I feel like such a player lol.

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Tue, 07-22-2008 - 6:31pm

Oh! Oh! Oh! And get THIS!


He wants to come over Wednesday and hang out with the girls and I. I was like hmm maybe after they go to bed. He says you're squeemish about introducing them to me? I said well yah. He says well Michelle you're going to have to get over that eventually. GAH.. what a pickle I'm in. Its bad enough I introduced them to HC... I can't go adding another man to the mix. My poor kids :( LOL. So, he's being pushed back to coming over for a movie AFTER the girls go to bed :)

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Tue, 07-22-2008 - 6:35pm
You need to introduce the kids in a time frame you are most comfortable with.
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Tue, 07-22-2008 - 6:38pm

Egad... it would be very confusing for

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Tue, 07-22-2008 - 6:51pm
Good pix - thanks for sharing!! You and your daughter are cute!!
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Tue, 07-22-2008 - 8:54pm
i really hate to rain on your parade - BUT I had an 'all or nothing" guy and it was a TOTAL TRAIN WRECK FOR ME, admittedly I made the mistake of moving into permanent way too quickly, but 2 yrs after it is

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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