UP-DATE....

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Sun, 03-09-2008 - 3:38pm

Ok... so it's hard to explain how it was. Very different in a very good way....


So I called him later in the afternoon and suggested we meet for a drink first and then decide if we want to go to a dessert place. It just seemed better, because we could sit over a beer and just chat without feeling we had to get up and go anytime soon. So we met in front of the restaurant and he looked A LOT different from his photos. I wouldn't have recognized him. Not a bad different, but kind of a very young, very preppy looking guy. He looked like he was in his early twenties, he had a beard look in his photos that he has since shaved and he just looked like a prep.


Anyway, it took him about 5 minutes to really look at me. LOL. I sensed he extremely nervous, but when he finally did it was fine and the conversation just flowed. We ordered different beers and discussed them and I gave him a 101 beer lesson. It was kind of funny, because the bartendar told him that I really knew my stuff. I replied that

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In reply to: myprecioustwo
Mon, 03-10-2008 - 1:21pm

"Each time they do, they scare me away, because i know it's premature and therefore don't want to involve myself with someone I feel is easily in and out of love."

AGREED! And you can be out dating other people, too! It is like this one latched onto you with all of his troubles, which are understandable, and you want and need to be courted and see if someone really is right and you are right for each other which takes time.

2 months is just way too soon for him. And you two only just met - it is not like you have known each other a long time.

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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 1:30pm

CL,

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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 1:52pm

He has told me twice he's ready for companionship, but i just dont' want "companionship" to mean his definition of only sex, just because he hasn't had any in years. If that's the case, he's barking up the wrong tree as far as me jumping straight into that. I definitely want to be courted and I definitely want to take my time. I feel no rush and don't want to be rushed because he has manly needs. lol.


It will be very interesting to see where this leads.......... I NEED SHRIMPY advice!

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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 1:56pm
SHRIMPY??
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 2:58pm

I feel the need to chime in and I hope my opinion is somewhat helpful.

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