Debating

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Debating
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Fri, 05-02-2008 - 1:02pm

So--lawstudent is back in town.

April

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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 1:14pm

Hey April-


I don't know if I have the "right" answer or if there is such a thing but my instinct would be to just send a nice text saying something like "hoping the school prep is coming along. Let me know if you would like to get together.."


I'd probably do that but others here might say to lay low and let him do the prompting :o)


In any case he seems really sweet!


~Pacific~
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Registered: 04-14-2008
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 1:19pm
I think your handling it exactly right. Hope it exceeds your desires.
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Registered: 10-10-2007
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 8:15pm

Hope it exceeds your desires.


It did--I am the queen of worrying for no reason!

April

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Registered: 03-25-2002
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 8:28pm

Yay... that is great news that he called.....


i feel the same as you....


this is what i'm telling myself.. STOP worrying... listen to what he says and take in the POSITIVE....


for me, TG is saying soo many great things to me, and i don't hear them... for real... or I don't believe them... i'm too worried... i have to remind myself all the time... "Enjoy this beginning stage of the relationship..." it is both scary and fun at the same time.... but i don't want to miss the little things because i'm worried about the long term stuff.... listen to me... i'm worried about being worried LOL LOL LOL...


I'm happy for you April... i feel like we are going thru the same things right now....


Loonybunny


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Registered: 10-09-2005
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 9:38pm

Funny...looks like we went through the same thing today. Debating between saying something about getting together and waiting for him initiate something. Don't you hate it? Glad it worked out for you. Have fun!

Cat

Cat
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Registered: 10-10-2007
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 10:40pm

but i don't want to miss the little things because i'm worried about the long term stuff.... listen to me... i'm worried about being worried LOL LOL LOL...


That is exactly where I am in this!

April

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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: lonleymomx2
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 10:42pm
I think your plan is perfect! If he DOES contact you, great - then offer to cook for him if you want. But I would wait to be pursued at this point b/c i think you said he isnt too forward in that way, correct?

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