Did I over-react?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Did I over-react?
31
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 12:41pm

Hi Everyone.


I'm batteling a cold so please excuse my foggy brain. I'll try to type coherently :o)


I am wondering, does anyone else kind of flip out when they can't reach their SO at night, or even in the day for that matter? I guess that I go along so happy and content but maybe an insecurity monster sits below the surface. Blue Eyes often goes to friends after his sporting activities like last night. He is usually reachable by cell phone and if not, he's home by 10pm for the night. Last night I kept getting his cell phone's VM and he wasn't home even by almost 11pm. I got worried. More so that I thought something had happened to him rather than his being up to no good.


I just hate it when that happens, I kind of start getting a little panicky. It reminds me of being young (but old enough to stay home alone like 12 or 13 ) and my parents would go out and come home really late...do you remmeber that feeling...of worry? So I couldn't reach him and he know that we talk every night around 10pm. I always call after DD is in bed.


He finally calls me at 11 pm from his home. He had gone to a friends house after disc golf. He told me that he did

~Pacific~

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Fri, 10-26-2007 - 3:37pm

Hey Clem,


I appreciate your sharing your story. Wow, can I relate. I think it's programing...you know, when you get burned by certain relationships in the past, and then it's so easy to react to things in the present. Like you, I'm trying to keep these things to myself. The other night it just got the best of me but I feel stronger now. I know I have a great guy and I don't want to do anything to push him away.

~Pacific~

Pages