Ding Dong, The Witch is Dead...

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Ding Dong, The Witch is Dead...
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Thu, 06-05-2008 - 1:12pm

...The wicked witch is, well, not DEAD but gone.


I got the call. Just now at work. He said he told her and she pretty much guilted him about ending a ten year friendship. He seemed a little, almost sad? I think what got to him was her saying that she blamed him for the secrecy saying that HE did not want her to call when I was around. Thats true, but it took both of them to carry on like that.


It feels weird. I feel (in an evil way) really great that she got was coming to her. Cut off point blank. Does that make me evil or what? I feel powerful in the way that he did that to keep me in his life. But to be honest I do not think he is 100 percent convinced it was right to shut off all contact. Maybe he will in hindsight.


So where am I in all this? I was pretty much silent and all I could really muster was "wow...so it's done." She was the biggest thorn in our relationship. I think somehow he wants me to show my appreciation or thankfulness for what he just did. But why should I

~Pacific~

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Fri, 06-06-2008 - 9:31am
OMG what I wouldnt give for a Salad shooter...maybe ill get a small one to keep in the car for DDs visits...LOL Maybe ill just get the full size one and hang it from my rear view mirror
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Fri, 06-06-2008 - 10:07am

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Hang it from your mirror!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 10-09-2005
Fri, 06-06-2008 - 10:48am

Pac~


Sorry I'm so late to chime in.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Fri, 06-06-2008 - 12:10pm

Thanks, Everyone-


We talked a bit last night- briefly. He said he feels like a bag of rocks has been taken off his back. I said I feel like you do when a thorn is removed from your hand- relief even though there is still healing to do.


BH's reaction to the whole thing proves her malice and intent. She hung up on him even though he was being very calm in his telling her. So it goes to show that she was way too emotionally attached and not for the right reasons at all. AND just as I figured-

~Pacific~
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Sat, 06-07-2008 - 2:59pm

So did he say he had to cut things off between him and BH, because he didn't think it was right to keep that open... or did he tell her it was because you wanted it?


I hope BE's daughter knows better than to even say a THING about all of it. It's not her business, nor her place. Although BH went to her directly with it, I hope she stays out of it. And it would be great if she could've told BH to lay off, too! (wishful thinking)


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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