I think friendship may be a bit tough to understand for me. I think having a good relationship is important, but as far as intimate conversations or even personal convesations, I would have to say that I wouldn't feel to comfortable about that. Again, no matter if kids are involved or not. I don't think it makes a difference. Boundaries are boundaries. I realize having kids and that sort of bond maybe more of a reason, but in all reality, it just seems one person is always holding on a little. Either as an emotional blanket or whatever. And broom hilda seems to know that she gets to BE and that would BUG the heck out of me. It's her way of getting some sort of validation out of him. Maybe that is why BE gets a little jelly belly with guys involved in Disc Golf? He is distracted by whatever she says. His mind is on it, no matter what. I would have a serious issue with that. Moreso because I've been dumped SEVERAL times by men that told me certain X girlfriends, wives, fiances, flings were still FRIENDS. I can have a respectable nice conversation with some of my X's, but I have noticed that there has to be a boundary. I have also noticed when I call up an X, it's because I'm curious if they are single, I'm thinking of maybe re-hashing and the X's who have dialed my number were thinking the same thing. Just calling out of the blue doesn't happen without an intention. That is why when my oldest DD's loser Dad calls me in the middle of the night, it's all about me, not about his daughter or anything or anyone else. It would upset anyone, thank goodness, no one is in my life to catch on and he ends up only getting a rude comment and the dial tone anyway. That's why he always comes back for me. Can't stand that he gets rejected from me.
I wouldn't worry about BE but I would worry about BH. Women, as men, can be spineless, uncaring, selfish people. They don't care who they walk on or over.
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I've been wondering about the situation with you and your sis. Talk about boundaries and limits!! If you care to share what's going on here or
I think friendship may be a bit tough to understand for me. I think having a good relationship is important, but as far as intimate conversations or even personal convesations, I would have to say that I wouldn't feel to comfortable about that. Again, no matter if kids are involved or not. I don't think it makes a difference. Boundaries are boundaries. I realize having kids and that sort of bond maybe more of a reason, but in all reality, it just seems one person is always holding on a little. Either as an emotional blanket or whatever. And broom hilda seems to know that she gets to BE and that would BUG the heck out of me. It's her way of getting some sort of validation out of him. Maybe that is why BE gets a little jelly belly with guys involved in Disc Golf? He is distracted by whatever she says. His mind is on it, no matter what. I would have a serious issue with that. Moreso because I've been dumped SEVERAL times by men that told me certain X girlfriends, wives, fiances, flings were still FRIENDS. I can have a respectable nice conversation with some of my X's, but I have noticed that there has to be a boundary. I have also noticed when I call up an X, it's because I'm curious if they are single, I'm thinking of maybe re-hashing and the X's who have dialed my number were thinking the same thing. Just calling out of the blue doesn't happen without an intention. That is why when my oldest DD's loser Dad calls me in the middle of the night, it's all about me, not about his daughter or anything or anyone else. It would upset anyone, thank goodness, no one is in my life to catch on and he ends up only getting a rude comment and the dial tone anyway. That's why he always comes back for me. Can't stand that he gets rejected from me.
I wouldn't worry about BE but I would worry about BH. Women, as men, can be spineless, uncaring, selfish people. They don't care who they walk on or over.
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