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| Thu, 06-07-2007 - 11:36pm |
We made the decision last night. I can't talk about it right now, but I will after my trip. I leave tomorrow night for the weekend. I will be back and will tell you the details. Thanks for being there.
~Mel~

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Mel,
I'm glad that you two made the decision.
Deciding to divorce can never be easy.
While you're feeling strong, I hope you will write down everything that contributed to this decision, and keep it someplace safe.
Hugs about this, Mel. I know this is simply not what you wanted or hoped for. But I do hope things will be better for you now that you won't be living on the separation roller-coaster of being in limbo. Now you won't be second-guessing everything and not knowing which way to turn. At least now you KNOW. But I know that doesn't help ease the pain. So (((((((hugs)))))))) to you.
~shrimpy
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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My trip was fabulous. I had the best time. My cousins were so therapeutic for me and we just relaxed and had a great time. I shopped and ate and drank and sat in the hot tub and soaked life in. It was so hard to come back yesterday and he started getting nasty with me immediately. Made me want to run and hide forever.
My cousins want to do sexy calendars next month and have us take on different personalities. They are all married and can give their's to their men, but I have no one. K says that I need to do it anyway FOR ME. She said she is not doing it for him. It is for her and her own self esteem. I think that is a good idea. I guess I'll be going back next month to do my photos.
I'm really tired. Stressed out about all of this since I returned. I am struggling even to sleep even though we've made the decision. I gave him an ultimatum and that forced it. I said that he needed to either agree to counseling or just let me go. He chose to let me go. So that is that. But he said he refuses to close the door on the hope that maybe one day we will get our crap straight and find one another again. Not sure about that. I adore him but I know he's not healthy for me. No one is right now.
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