Do you go out W/out SO?
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Do you go out W/out SO?
| Sat, 07-31-2004 - 9:56am |
If so, how often? Does he go out without you? How often?
Just curious! Haven't visited in a few days. Miss y'all!
Mel

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I know I have my "taken" sign up these days. I've never had trouble finding someone if I wanted attention, but I don't get hit on unless I'm looking for it.
I am having a hard time relating to your "too much into each other" problem. It's been 6 months now since I've had face to face with Trav...damned war! I have the lonelies today...I wish trav and I could have some togetherness...
We go out - separate from each other - probably twice a month. And the number one thing we normally do? Go to clubs! LOL I LOVE getting together with my girlfriends and going to dinner and then hitting a night club (actually - here in Vegas they call them "Ultra Lounges" now . . . so dumb!) to dance the night away! And if I get hit on? I really don't care! I KNOW who I am going home to! And TT and his buddies meet for dinner and then go to a night club (always Light, at The Bellagio) and sit in their VIP booth, drinking vodka, smoking cigars, talking and people watching. And if he gets hit on? I really don't care! I know he's coming home to me!
Mindy
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I agree. Every couple is different. When J and I don't spend QUALITY time together things get weird too. It's a balance (for us) between quality time together and quality time with members of the same sex.
And I am with you and MG. The mountains are VERY theraputic for me as well. When I can't stand it anymore, I'll just take a day trip and drive into them. Find something beautiful to look at.
My mom and I are planning a back packing trip in RMNP in just a few weeks (I'll be right in your neck of the woods as I drive though) and I can't WAIT to see the water falls, hike in about 5 miles to the tree line and breath the fresh air and listen to...the QUIET!!!! It's going to be incredible!!!
Mindy, you were actually the EXACT person I was thinking of when I first began reading this discussion. Because you and TT are the ONLY couple I know that is that comfortable with separately going out clubbing and coming home to one another and having NO PROBLEM whatsoever with it.
I am glad it works for you. Me? I am afraid I'd get myself in trouble. And that's the truth. LOL!!!
But you know, neither J nor myself were into that scene before we got married. So maybe that's part of it. That is your comfort level because you've both always done that.
He goes out without me too, but he doesn't hang out in clubs or go to bars. He plays golf with guys. Or he goes over to his best friend's house. His best friend is married and has a kid. I hang out with them sometimes too with my SO. It would bother me if my SO went clubbing or hung out in bars. I'm glad we don't do that.
When I’m out and about on my own, men are always flirting with me. They’ll give me that extra long eye contact or smile or initiate conversation with me, but they don’t take it any further than that. I don’t think I give out the signal anymore that it’s ok to ask…if there is such a signal.
David always laughs at the way that I get “extra special service” from male customer service workers almost every where we go. He says all I have to do is flash them my big bright smile and they’ll give me whatever I want. ;)
And you're so right about "who cares if he gets hit on". If you trust him, what the dif if some woman has other ideas?
I'm sure trav gets hit on often enough, but I trust him. He's very capable of saying "no"...And no woman is going to force him to do anything. He carries an M-16...LOL
Mel
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