doh i put myself out there

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doh i put myself out there
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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 9:56am

so much for waiting out my strange mood.


i sent the vulnerable email and now i'm waiting on pins and needles that i won't be rejected.


i essentially said the blurb about having a softer side and hope he wants to get to know that side too. it was not a selfless email either, i'm hoping he'll take my cue and open up to me a little more... so we'll see.

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 12:57pm

Loony, I applaud you for being you. You have a softer side and are willing to be vulnerable to MM. You are being real..and it take a true heart to go there. I'm glad you sent the email.


Now I am on pins and needles. lol. Post back here when he write back...

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 1:08pm

I think its a good thing that you put yourself out there to MM. Just know that you are you and how you feel is valid regardless of what MM does or says. I think that once we as woman realize that we will be better off.


JL

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 2:59pm

we have a dinner date tomorrow night.


he sent me a friendly text today (before he read my email.. i guess, he didn't check that til this afternoon).. we

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 3:38pm

Yay!!!!!!!!


I love the way this is going. Its like a slow simmer that is heating up. And the tension... yee haw!!! Don't think about his reaction to your soft side email. He'll treasure you for trusting him enough to share that with him.


Can't wait for your update!

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 5:41pm
I'm glad you feel relieved!
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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 6:24pm

i suppose relief is the word, Cat...


MM did send an email reply as well as a couple more reassuring and sweet text messages today...


His email response And yes, I'm interested in getting to know you better... from any and all sides.


He also said via text ps interesting people always have more than one side. and you are definitely interesting *wink and then about ten minutes later he wrote... . . . Or else you wouldn't have my attention.


phew... it wasn't easy sticking my neck out like that this morning and he was out of the office most of the day and didn't respond... so it left me feeling more anxiety.


And, his dinner invitation came before he even saw the vulnerable email...


I'm scared out of my mind right now, even if i am enjoying what is developing.


thanks for the support EVERYONE!


Loonybunny

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Wed, 10-08-2008 - 10:30pm

and i'm gonna just admit something. I am falling all over HIS MIND.. which is different for me. Ya know, usually it is some body part, etc. But with MM, it is his mind that has me enthralled. Just completely fascinated. He's attractive, too, but via email or on the phone... i'm amazed at the connection.


just had to get that off my chest...


Loonybunny

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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 8:13am
Yay Loony! I'm glad it's going so well.
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