Don't know what to do??????

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Registered: 02-28-2008
Don't know what to do??????
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Thu, 02-28-2008 - 4:27pm
I am a mother of a one year old boy and proud of it! However the father and i are not together and haven't been, but i've been dating this guy for almost a year now, and he has a son to and him and his ex were together up until him and i for 6yrs! For the most part i am very happy with him everyone makes mistakes, but when it comes to me and my little boys dad my boyfriend is so insecure about him like when he comes to drop him off by the house my boyfriends usually there and the father has to bring him up to me becasue he can't walk up the stairs by hiself, and the other day my boyfriend asked me if i could go meet my ex outside so he didn't have to come in because he feels uncomfortable about it, and i never am around to see what happens when he drops his son off to see if he goes inside with him or what! Also when my ex calls my boyfriend makes me get off the phone with him real quick he won't let me talk about anything, but our little boy he says thats all we should talk about, and him and his ex i have only heard them have a conversation twice! Like if my ex calls to find out how i've been hows work going anything besides our son my boyfriend gets pissed! Do you think that he is doing something with his ex or am i doing something wrong? I don't know i've never been in this siuation before and i don't know what to think i mean i know my ex and i are going to have to get along for the next 17yrs for our sons sake, but even his birthday his first birthday at that i couldn't invite him because my boyfriend wouldn't let me and my ex has never done anything to him he is so nice to him every time he sees him hes never been rude to him! So what would you do?

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 10:38am

Excellent, excellent, excellent advice and support, Soonee.

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Registered: 02-28-2008
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 5:31pm
No i was saying that when my sons dad comes to drop off our son that he does greet my boyfriend, and has never showed any disrespect towards him, but however he hands our son over to me not him
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Registered: 02-28-2008
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 5:34pm
Thanks everyone for the advice i appreciate it and i hope that things change are he's history!

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