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|Thu, 08-22-2013 - 10:31am|
My relationship with my son's father ended in June (we were emotionally over long before). Right now I have no real interest in pursing a serious relationship and want to casually date. My best male friend and I have been seeing a lot of each other (he has a son and divorced a year ago). When I say seeing a lot of each other it is usually group outings or party's or sometimes we take our kids to the park etc. We are really close and have been friends for close to 20 years and talk to each other about everything. We recently had a discussion about causally sleeping together. He hasn't been with anyone since his divorce. From our very open and frank discussion on the topic I feel like we will both still be good friends after. I know this may be a weird way to view the situation but in our 20 year friendship this is the first time we both have been single and the opportunity to be intimate is there, I feel like If we don't we will both always wonder "what if". Before we had the discussion about being intimate I have noticed some sexual tension between us. Not in a bad way but I have been thinking about him sexually a lot. I would appreciate anyone who has been in a similar situation or has any advice on the matter.