Dove into OLD
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Dove into OLD
| Thu, 07-05-2007 - 5:25pm |
Hi all,
So I took the plunge and subcribed to match (3 months subcription). I'm leaving here (work) at 5:30 so I didn't send anyone an email... just winked at a couple and uploaded a few new photos. I already received two winks in ten minutes...
I was inspired by Cat... she went on Match and got a date that quickly... My thinking is that it will widen my scope of the guys that I meet. So, we'll see.....
Loonybunny

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First of all, depending if you are comfortable already giving him your number, turn it around and make sure he has your number to call you.
Then, let him know that you would like to hear from him this weekend and if he has time Sunday evening, it would be the best time to chat, because you have a few other things going on.
That is my advice. Don't send him too many winks, but feel free to send him another email or two. Just don't let the ball drop in your court. Make sure, its in his to contact you.
This is MY OLD PROFILE on Match.com:
A short hello verses a wink will be appreciated.
I moved over a year ago to NC after living in Europe for 10 years and still getting used to the culture change.
I am not here to just date, I am looking for a meaningful relationship and finally settling down. I love the go slow idea of a relationship, not the whirlwind. Moving along slowly, enjoying one another and having fun with me without thinking, just because I want to go to the beach for the day with you, it's a serious step in the relationship. It's the beach!
Because I enjoy stimulating conversation, I would like someone that is well read and willing to learn new things, as well as teach me new things.
Seeking someone who is not obsessive compulsive with their children. I am a Mom, who loves my children and understands the importance of putting them in a healthy priority, but I do not allow my children to become the parent, manipulative or jealous; nor do I want to date someone that allows his children to be that way.
Seeking a man with morals, respect, positive and manners, not someone that is selfish, moody, unbalanced, negative or disrespectful of me and my time. I would like someone that can be themselves, someone who doesn't feel he has to always be happy, entertaining and positive around me all of the time (we all have our off days), as long as he is still happy and positive with himself and it is not negative chronic behaviour. I would like a man that says what he thinks. Nothing is more exciting/sexy than a man that can balance the art of communcation but also compromise when needed. Please no smoke and mirrors. It is so very disappointing to find out later and I consider it lieing.
I don't expect anything from anyone that I don't expect from myself. I have a lot going on, but I have time for the right man and would like him to make time for me; Again, I am seeking a relationship, not keeping it to a friendship, an occasional date or a fling (not interested). If you have too many things going on, I'm not the right person for you anyway.
I am career oriented but above all else family oriented, and seek someone on that same level. I also believe that career and family go hand in hand - balance.
I would like to meet someone that knows that life is precious and appreciates it. I want the right person in my life, where we accept each other completely for who we are, compliment each other and not change one another.
If you are a lie and a cheat, involved in drugs or deal with people involved in drugs, bring drama (bad temper), are a total flirt or jealous, then please DON'T contact me.
I love children. If you have kids, then I say: "The more the merrier". I raise my kids completely 24/7, anyone that dates me, must accept and respect them (pls do not apply if it's a problem).
Foremost, I am a woman, I love to go out, I love to cook, snuggle on the couch and watch movies. I love having fun and I am versatile in that field. I am not looking for perfection in a man, because we all have faults, but only acceptance that we are all individuals and we all should respect each other for the individual characters that we are and the choices we have made.
However, if we are THAT extreme from what you have read in this profile, then please do not contact me; I have learned that complete opposites in my book: do not attract.
I like your first paragraph for I got a sense of what kind of relationship you want. I especially like your example of what a trip to the beach would mean. This takes a lot of guesswork out for me.
BTW lieing is spelled lying. Of course those people who lie and cheat don't take themselves out from the running in responding I'm sure.
Good luck.
Mark
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