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EEEEEEEE He called
| Tue, 06-12-2007 - 9:25am |
I am like a 15 year old.
He called and wanted to say thank you that he really had a great time with me and was impressed that I could learn to play pool so well and had so much fun. He definitely wants to hang out again - to go on bike rides or go to dinner or to the movies or play more pool. So he wants me to email him my training schedule.
So when I hung up the phone I screamed like a kid and my dogs ran to see what I was doing. I explained, Mama had a date! Good thing DS is at tennis camp this morning!
Had to share. I guess this is the good side of dating and I am having fun.

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What a great feeling that must be. Gee I hope you get to post some pictures of this Adonis soon. He sounds absolutely perfect for you! You would be the kind of couple the rest of us stare at and are jealous of!
I can't wait to hear more!
Rose
You would be the kind of couple the rest of us stare at and are jealous of!
Yeah, it's good to keep all those Perfect Bodies in one family, heheehe.
I hope you have a great time with this one!
Soonee - that is exactly what I was thinking! LOL!
Rose
As I said, I think it's great when you have things in common that are very important to the both of you. Makes life so much easier. So where are you going to go next??
I am not sure. He wants my schedule so he will know exactly what nights I am free and what days I am supposed to ride my bike. And we can do more stuff.
He sent the sweetest email (and a text saying he sent it) saying he was being on very good behavior last night and was a gentleman for me and did not give me the good night kiss that was too crazy and that he hoped that was okay.
He also visited the triathlon forum and sent me a private message.
So that is all good. He is thinking about me!! :-)
I think he is fun and that we have a lot of good stuff in common. I just have to be sure of his lifestyle and that it is okay. A lot of the guards like to party and there are a lot of spring break types of girls out on the beach. Of course a lot of them take their jobs seriously - they do have a big responsibility on the beach because it gets very busy and there are a lot of times the water is unsafe or there are critters that sting. I know they have a lot of competitions between various beaches. I was friends with one of the guards that used to work there - he was our swim coach and I used to swim with him. He knows that guy so that is kind of neat.
I don't know - i am really trying to look at it like it is just a date. And I am going to try to be encouraged to date at least one of the other 2 prospects.
Good for you, that's awesome!
Date what's that? :-)
Keep us posted. I want to live vicariously through you.
Fun is key, and I love that you're excited about spending time with him.
What will you do for your second date- any ideas or plans yet?
Keep us posted, and keep having fun!
Moody, super thrilled for you
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Agree again! We must be on a roll! I think you should just keep yourself not quite exclusive yet. My opinion is because you still have a little bit to figure out and for some reason, it keeps things open and fun (why am I telling you this? I know you already know all that). LOL It's nice to know he's INTO you, as long as it doesn't get over bearing like Mr. Germany.
M was going nuts during that time, but I was glad that I stood my ground, even if it only lasted a month.
Can't wait to hear about the other prospectives.
As for the life guard job. I totally agree you can't stereo-type them. Their are exceptions to every person and the occupation they chose. M for instance used to be a firefighter, but he was so family oriented that he never drank or went out and partied with the rest of them. He went home to his family to be responsible.
So how old is he? Was this guy ever married? Does he have any children? How does he feel about kids? I can't remember if you mentioned all that. What are we naming him? A lifeguard needs a sexy name! LOL.
WOWZA! He sounds HOT! I wanna see! Cant you right click on his profile pics & save them? I know you know how ot do that! lol Send me them! I wanna drool TOO! ;)
He is my age. He has one child and was never married. Although he has recently had a serious live in relationship that ended because she moved away. He is really into his kid and takes him a lot of places.
I am putting the brakes on this one, though, because he has a website that he gave me the link to (it was in the signature he has on the sport forum where he sent me a message saying he had read my race reports before meeting me). So, I went to the site and there are a lot of pix of the crowd he hangs with and parties with and he was really a partier in his recent days (they were dressed up like hooters girls for hooterween and there are girls in thongs for the bikini contest and stuff like that). I am not into the wet t shirt crowd and all the spring break stuff on the beach. He has had a lifetime of that stuff. No wonder he is 45 and never been married. And okay so maybe he has chilled a bit on that, but I am not sure how much you can erase the spots on a leopard so to speak. It just is not my culture.
I have 2 more writing to me - one is a cyclist who is very fit and a single dad. And another who lives here too.
I figured out on my bike this morning that I have to date a lot and not go exclusive too soon until I really know someone. I think I got lucky to go online and look at all those pix - I mean it is not like one party - it is a span of the past 6 years worth of parties.
Sure, the lifeguard is hot and into me. But I feel he has had a history of being with too many loose women and that whole scene just has too many red flags. And over 40 never married is also a flag to me. I would always try to keep an open mind if there is an over 40 never married - but it always starts as a flag. Maybe this is a lesson to all of us. And a good thing I was a detective and saw his site and looked through the albums!!
I am not getting discouraged - but honing my dating skills. I can meet a lot of people and have fun. Keep myself from getting too intimate too fast (and certainly not without the exclusivity talk and right time) and I am learning that you have to have a tough skin and keep on going and looking and not having rose colored glasses.
It is harder when we are older to find a match but since I am older it is easy to see who someone really is and with the internet and so many single people it is a matter of patience and time to find the right one for me.
I just want someone fit who lives close by who is healthy in the head department who is into me. I am not going to settle for a drinker or partier who has loose morals. It is just too easy to say next and find someone who has more to offer me. Because I feel I am not fishing with an empty hook. I have worked very hard to have a viable business, a great figure and good integrity/family life. I want to find at least what I have to offer. Not someone with a LOT less.
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