EH issue, lol ...

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
EH issue, lol ...
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Sat, 05-24-2008 - 11:12am

Hmmmm .... the guy who 1st contacted me & although it took about a week & 1/2, we finally got to open communication & then after a couple emails, he called me a week ago Friday. We had a good converstation & he said he would call me on Sat. I never heard another thing, via phone or email. So, this AM, i closed his ass.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: rlch
Sat, 05-24-2008 - 11:22am

Well, if you open him you have nothing to lose - why not - and if he doesn't email or call then close him again. Maybe you could send a note saying his lack of communication caused you to think he is not interested and you want to keep things straight in your match box?

I think all the guys are dating up a storm like our dear Mark and Mike - so we have to be patient and keep trying til we find the one with a mutual spark. It will happen, just not overnight. And the thing is, EH is working while we are doing other things - you never know when the box of chocolates will come up with the cherry!! LOL!!

Keep us posted.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: rlch
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 8:06pm

Hmmm... tough call!


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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: rlch
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 10:13pm

Exactly! I thought the same thing - unless he is too scared to call if i closed him. Which i guess in SOME sort of way, may be respectful. I mean if i closed him, it would then be pretty rude, forward, etc - of him to then call me & put me on the spot.


Either way, i re-opened him yesterday. If he contacts me, i will use the line West said about assuming he wasnt interested - AND i will add

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