Etiquette regarding the Widower.....
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Etiquette regarding the Widower.....
| Thu, 03-06-2008 - 8:48am |
Ok, so the Widower, which I REALLY have to re-nickname, sent me a VERY extensive and nice email. In part of it, he wrote this:
I've only been on match for a few weeks. To be honest, you're the first person I have exchanged more than 2 emails with. Some of the people I get 'winks' from have been a little strange as well. One woman even emailed directly and wanted to bring over dinner for me and the kids - OK, don't know you, never met you, but sure bring over dinner...not going to happen! You really have to weed out some of the weird stuff, but I guess like anything, even internet chat takes some work and time to find the right kinds of people or person.

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You're welcome... and good luck!
So far, I think he is. He REALLY takes the time to write me. He doesn't seem to have a problem with communication. His email was over a word.doc page long.
Cat-
When are you meeting? I'm chiming in late here but here's my two cents. I would let things come up naturally. If the conversation flows in
Wow!
Hey Cat,
I am chiming in late here.
I think you should be aware of his issues - but not say anything - just let him bring it up - and then when/if he does - show you are emathetic and open to his stories. But not make a big deal.
Keep us posted! He sounds like a great guy!!
Hi Cat,
I agree that he sounds like a nice guy.
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