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Mon, 04-07-2008 - 5:15pm

Hi all,


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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 3:36pm

ITA!


I've been there- and acceptance is a choice. Once you go there you gotta really accept it. Or leave before the committement. *sigh* Ahhhh the life lessons we learn!!


~Pacific~
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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 3:36pm

All,


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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 4:20pm

I'm not going to sugar coat this - this ALL worries me.

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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 4:34pm
I was thinking after I read rlch's message ( and I really relate to that post btw and agree with it) that maybe part of our confusion for you is that some of us havent heard about the good stuff. What is it that makes the two of you a happy joyful couple looking at your future together. What do you just adore about him and what about him brings a big silly grin to your face? Maybe we are missing the happy boat because we only are reading posts when you are frustrated? It just might help us understand why you are set on him being the one for you and it also might help us advise you better...
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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 4:38pm

I'm not sure how I'll approach it with my folks when SEV and I move in together.


....Ah....umm..... Did i miss an announcement.....Lucy you have some 'splainin to do......

Rosecolouredspecs
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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 4:45pm
OMG first the cake in that other post and now this....I think we should call Moon's family immediately for an intervention. HAHA.
Ahem. I second the request for more info on this - are we in negotiations for a blended family move in situation? OOH!!
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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 4:50pm
oops reposting this one because I sent it to rlch instead...
I was thinking after I read rlch's message ( and I really relate to that post btw and agree with it) that maybe part of our confusion for you is that some of us havent heard about the good stuff. What is it that makes the two of you a happy joyful couple looking at your future together. What do you just adore about him and what about him brings a big silly grin to your face? Maybe we are missing the happy boat because we only are reading posts when you are frustrated? It just might help us understand why you are set on him being the one for you and it also might help us advise you better...
Also edited to add: you have made me feel the weirdest thing in your description of doing things because you have a conservative family and need things to be in a certain order. I was thinking over here that I am lucky because my Mom is a hippy who died years ago and my Dad is gay and has no room to talk!! I am free as a bird apparently -look out, right? LOL
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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 5:10pm
Very true. So often we may come on to vent about lifes situations, which sometimes leads others to see only the more negative things.

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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 5:22pm

I have to agree with Rebecca - but from a different perspective.

Rosecolouredspecs
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Tue, 04-08-2008 - 5:28pm

Hi City,