ever given an ultimatum or sort of ...

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Mon, 04-07-2008 - 5:15pm

Hi all,


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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 10:19am
Ok, ok - I'll post the latest in a new thread...
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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 11:03am

Isysmoon,


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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 2:22pm

And perhaps with him, I should tell things more explicitly if I REALLy want it if it is something like a romantic gesture ..like brnging a gift or a hallmark card. I know he just doesnt think along those lines..lol.


See that's just it!

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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 2:46pm
I would urge you to check your company's policy on dating among co-workers before "going public" with this relationship, so that one or both of you don't find yourselves unemployed.
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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 3:53pm

Hi gal,


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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 4:37pm

I read in Mars Vs. Venus that as women we need to do that and at first I felt like it was hurting my pride to be such a "suck up".

~Pacific~
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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 5:25pm

I'm late to chime it but just had to before you make the same mistake I did.

Cat
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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 5:58pm

If I had to guess, most men are not as motivated to propose once their girlfriend moves in with them.

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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 6:00pm

So true, Mark!


Funny thing now is I've been in relationship for over a year with no plans for moving in or marriage and I'm thrilled.

Cat
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Wed, 04-09-2008 - 6:03pm
This is so true and that's why I made it clear up front two years ago that I won't move in with someone before marriage.