Ever have one of these days?

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Registered: 01-28-2008
Ever have one of these days?
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Tue, 02-19-2008 - 1:23pm

I know I must profess that I am a workaholic.Every time I am off I find myself with my son trying to spend more time with him. I have been helping my dad alot with some remodeling on my spare time.Funny how you dont really think about things

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Tue, 02-19-2008 - 1:50pm

When I feel this way, which is once or twice a month, I will put myself in a position to optionally date. I go to meetup meetings and I will take advantage of a free eharmony or match subscription of 2-3 days. I usually either find the men awful or I will go out on a date. But I no longer search search. Does that make sense? I just kind of let myself know that if I wanted too, I could. :) I actually don't have time for a man at all right now, but I found myself curious about the free communication on eharmony for the weekend, so I took advantage of it. ONE guy ended up being a TOTAL loser, but the other guy is actually quite interesting. I am actually going to post about him. And again, I also do the meetup groups, but there wasn't one this weekend, so I opted to surf the net. :) I feel that little bit of fishing was ok enough to just satisfy me at the moment.

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Registered: 01-28-2008
Tue, 02-19-2008 - 2:18pm
hmm..yeah I dont really know that I would have much luck with the online dating thing..my tries in the past have been nightmares or episodes of hiliarity! What ever happened to the old fashioned kinda guys talking to girls and asking right away for a number or a date? I think the thing with online dating is the chemistry,I live in a very very rural area and now find myself asking...do I want to drive ALL that way which is about 45 min to meet some guy in the nearest "city" and find myself trapped with Chibacca? LOL have actually had that happen!! Hmm..I think though for the sake of argument I am going to do a little online surfing...just exclude the Chibuccas!!!
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 02-19-2008 - 8:08pm
Any one of us here can write this exact same post. I do have days like that - where I wish I was in the comfort of a good relationship with someone who loves and appreciates me for me. But I know I must wait for the right one, and be all I can be so I can find that again in my life. Welcome - and feel free to post often - you might want to read and participate in all the threads to see you are not the only one who feels this way!!
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Registered: 11-03-2003
Tue, 02-19-2008 - 11:20pm

Absolutely!