The Ex Files

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The Ex Files
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Tue, 02-05-2008 - 11:16am

Hi to everyone-


I was reading Rebecca's post about the ex. I sooo feel for you, girl. Now I am a bit curious also about the

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Registered: 09-01-2006
In reply to: pacific_sun
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 10:26am
I actually had a feeling it would be that much...but I assume it was worth the outcome for you...?
Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 09-01-2006
In reply to: pacific_sun
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 11:20am
Hey Cat - maybe when first meeting someone new and the topic of your girls fathers comes up
Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 11-03-2003
In reply to: pacific_sun
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 11:42am

Adding onto Rose's excellent idea... how about answering from your perspective?

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Registered: 06-03-2006
In reply to: pacific_sun
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 12:00pm

just went to court this week. judgement should be out in a few weeks.

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Registered: 09-01-2006
In reply to: pacific_sun
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 1:45pm

Good Luck Decson!

Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 05-29-2003
In reply to: pacific_sun
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 4:43pm

Dated for 3 years, married for 10, separated for 2, divorced for 1. Two great kids DD 9 and DS is nearly 4.


Are they in your life? - Just

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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: pacific_sun
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 5:14pm

"My father


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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: pacific_sun
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 11:53pm

Ok, I'll bite...


Are they in your life? Are they in your kid's lives? Are they involved? Is the relationship between you and him healthy as far as cooperation for the kids? Does he help with finances, and things like that? Or- is he 100 percent out of the picture? Or maybe you just wish he was?


No, he's not in our lives- he lives on the mainland and we live on the island.


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