the "exclusive talk"
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| Thu, 08-09-2007 - 12:00am |
New Guy and I had the "talk" about being exclusive. Neither of us was really seeing anyone else (maybe a date here and there) but now we've agreed to not see anyone at all. We're still going to take things slowly but felt ready to make the out loud statement that we would be exclusive.
I've got so much going on right now (almost all of it good), it is nice to have someone to share my excitement with. It is also nice getting to be in the moment with him. He is so easy to talk to and I feel so relaxed with him.
I'm a little nervous about the physical stuff - It has been 13 years since I've been with someone new but I feel ready to take it a little further (looking forward to it is a better description). He has had no problem following my lead on this.
When he slept over a few weeks ago, I made it clear that it didn't mean sex. It was getting late and we were having such a good time, it just felt natural to invite him to stay. He had no issue with it and was glad I was making my boundaries clear. He said he didn't feel we were ready either and would have said no to staying over if I hadn't set the ground rules. We'll see where it goes.
That's my update. Hope everyone is having a good week.
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