Excuse Me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2008
Excuse Me?
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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 10:02pm

I just posted the following excerpt on another dating site and was told I was the disgusting one for finding him disrespectful.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2004
In reply to: dating4me
Thu, 04-24-2008 - 10:40pm

Uh oh... is that the same widower that Cat met online?!?! LOL


He told me that while she was still dying, she was encouraging him to find someone new, so he was just fulfilling her wishes for him to go on.

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: dating4me
Thu, 04-24-2008 - 10:49pm

I don't think you should judge him - just say NEXT!! That is too risky in my eyes.

Welcome!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2008
In reply to: dating4me
Thu, 04-24-2008 - 11:24pm

Now that is disturbing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2004
In reply to: dating4me
Fri, 04-25-2008 - 12:04am

Thankfully I don't think it could be the same guy- because the one Cat met wasn't married that long.


But it IS scary though- to know that men could just "get right back out there" after losing a wife... that quickly. (even if they don't realize it's too soon... they're still able to be out DOING it)


~shrimpy, who values the grieving process in healing

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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