ExH is a DOUCHEBAG!

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Registered: 02-05-2007
ExH is a DOUCHEBAG!
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Wed, 06-20-2007 - 1:16pm

The title pretty much sums it up. WARNING: This is a vent/rant post...sorry...

I know you can't depend on someone who has already proven to be a complete putz BUT somehow I keep thinking that the "father" gene is going to kick in and he'll actually put the children ahead of his own stupidity....COULDN'T BE MORE WRONG.

My ex douchebag lives with his parents. He has a company car. He does not pay for rent, gas, utilities, food. His mom is his live in babysitter. At the beginning of the year he got a pay cut, then demoted. He was making about 1/4 of his previous income...why? Because he decided to not give a flying F*ck about his job. Someone might think that the fact he has children would come into play and promote him to work his a$$ off or get a real job and make some real money....BUT NOOOOOO.

Last week I get a call from him telling me he can't pick up the children because he got kicked out of his house....HIS PARENTS HOUSE. Of course, instead of reconciling or doing anything a real man would he decided to take off and informed me that he might be "living in his car for a while" HIS COMPANY CAR. What a selfish Pr*ck. He calls at 12am to tell me that he has totalled his company car inbetween his parents house and his girlfriends house (3 hours to get from one to the other). The next day he calls and he got fired.

I have an unemployed f*ck face of an exH who now can't give me the measily $400 a month (child support order is for $1500/mo) that he was scratching up. He has no car to see his kids. ONCE AGAIN...I have to compensate for him being a dumb a$$.....

ARGH, I know he's no good, I know there is no explaining but WTF!!!!!!!!!
I guess some boys never become MEN.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 06-20-2007 - 4:21pm
I totally understand how you can be so frustrated. Because his selfish and irresponsible ways affect not just him but you and the kids. I am sure his parents feel the same way. And the $400 was not probably near enough, but now to go without it is hard for you. I hope you will be okay. Sorry you had to go through this.
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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 06-21-2007 - 10:11am
I sooooo HEAR you! OMG! Are you sure he didn't father more children, because he sounds like my DD's father. You can't even call them that, because they are so freaking worthless. I have a prime example that happened two days ago, but I guess the best example is that he hasn't paid a dime of child support in 14 years and he spends money like water, ruined his career, and lives on some woman's paycheck.