Facebook Vent (ex gf)

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Facebook Vent (ex gf)
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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 7:22pm

Every time I log onto EMT's facebook he is friends with a new female. That's not the bad part though. The bad part is this ex girlfriend of his is always sending him flirtatious remarks and calls him handsome and ends her posts with 'hugzzzz'. ARG!

I try not to let it bug me. Is this ok behavior for an ex girlfriend? Would you ladies consider this maddening?

Laurie

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 7:25pm
irriating, yes... but as long as EMT is not playing along and sending flirts back.. i'd say it is harmless. ignore her...
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Registered: 10-19-2008
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 7:27pm
You've gotta have him post some pictures of the two of you together to his page.
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Registered: 05-06-2008
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 8:19pm
I wouldn't like it.
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Registered: 03-19-2008
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 8:46pm

Oh. Good idea. Yeah he should post some very cozy pics of us together.

Laurie

anonymous
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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 8:53pm

that reminds me... why do some females post softporn-ish glitter graphics on myspace. do they think that will win a guy's heart? not..


that said, not sure if cozy pics will deter her or make her increase the messages. some just like stirring up trouble, ya know. ignore and don't let the bf know it bothers you, either,

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Sat, 01-17-2009 - 8:06am

That reminds me of a guy I lost to a woman who did that. He was another MM who I described as the total package. He had it all, looks, charm, a business, personality even a great dog. But I lost him to a woman who made herself 'available' before I did. I watched his myspace page turn into a porn page by her posts. Ick. Well I followed their relationship on myspace and it didnt work out, surprise surprise. Then when they fell apart he contacted me again. I was taken by the time he did.

I really didnt think that sort of woman was his type anyhow.

Laurie

anonymous
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Sat, 01-17-2009 - 8:38am
I find women like this totally annoying and it shows their insecurities with themselves. It's like they don't have the gumption to move on with their life.
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Sat, 01-17-2009 - 9:10am

Soft pornish glitter graphics...LOL! Yea, I know EXACTLY what you mean! My fiancee and I each have a myspace...in fact, that is how we got back in touch after all these years from high school. But anyway....he had ALL KINDS of those all over his comments and even after we began dating, those girls were still putting them there. We each have to accept our comments before they are put on, which I insisted for mine since I am a mom and have ex's that are both on there...oh and my mom is too...LOL....still makes me cringe, but anyway...they never really settle down much while we were dating and I asked him why he accepted those comments because honestly, I found it to be disrespectful to us and what we have and it gave those girls the impression that relentless flirting was okay with him...that they might have a chance. And I'm telling ya....those comments were pretty graphic...some of them. Mad me really upset...I'd laugh some off, because they are completely ridiculous, but still...when we took a break, OMG, they got worse! Now that we are engaged and he put it out there that we are and even wrote something on his page about me, those have tapered off...he said that he also is not accepting those anymore...I have even seen him deny them. Girls just do that crap and I agree that if he is not playing along, it's no big deal. Yes it makes you mad because it is inappropriate, but does Facebook have a feature where you can monitor your comments and make it to where only your friends can comment? I don't have a page there so I don't know the deal. If he can make his page a bit more private like that, she won't be able to put things on his page anymore unless he allows it...then and only then will you know if he's truly OK with it. But I'd surely look into some of the features on there and see how I could monitor things more closely.

Mel

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Sat, 01-17-2009 - 12:48pm

Facebook does allow you to set your page up so only friends can comment. His ex gf's comments arent that bad but they are flirty and inappropriate for an ex gf and to a man who is now involved with someone else.

Laurie

anonymous
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Registered: 04-21-2003
Sat, 01-17-2009 - 1:05pm
Oh I agree that if an ex gf is being flirtatious on his page, it needs to stop. Hopefully some cuddly sweet pics of the him with his new love will curb her flirting...but then you know how catty girls can be...might even make it worse...my advice is to make it as private as he can so even if she tries to comment, they can be denied before they make the cut to the page.












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