Feeling Hurt and Low

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Feeling Hurt and Low
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Mon, 10-13-2008 - 7:44pm

Hey all, I have read the board for awhile.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 11:53pm

There's another saying on this board that I thought would help you:

"Don't make someone a Priority who only makes you an Option".

What is your gameplan for when he tries to contact you next?

The boy

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Wed, 10-15-2008 - 9:43am

Well today Im feeling a little in the middle, if that makes sense.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Registered: 04-08-2003
Wed, 10-15-2008 - 10:19am

My suggestion is to join a meetup group. Quite a few of the ladies on here and I believe Mark, has joined since I started going. It has helped me make new friends and find new activities.

Each day will maybe get harder, but once you've gotten over the hump, you'll be ok.

I'm probably going to get KILLED for saying this, but I always felt that joining On Line Dating can take your mind off someone else. When you get emails from men that you are interested in, it reminds you that their are other men out their that want to be with you and that you don't have to stick with that loser. It's an ego boost. Not something I recommend to everyone, but this might just help you focus on what is out their and other options and avenues that aren't this guy.

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Registered: 09-12-2008
Wed, 10-15-2008 - 11:31am

I am so sorry you are going through this!

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Wed, 10-15-2008 - 12:36pm

cuz I actually miss him


I believe what you miss is the tasty crumbs he throws you. Those short times feel good. But they don't last. Do you miss feeling hurt, being cheated on, being put aside so he can go off with the other woman and have his way? Do you miss feeling helpless and thrown away and disrespected? Do you miss that look on your ds's face when you get hurt? Please remember these things when you are "stuck in a moment" of "missing" him.


Yes...fake it till you make it. Even if your heart is looking back, follow your brain and move forward. Your heart will follow eventually. It will!!!!!


Stay strong.


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