fighting the urge to call
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| Thu, 05-03-2007 - 11:11am |
This is tough.... I'm fighting hard though NOT to call BeachGuy. Especially after reading that article about why guys disappear.... At the end of our "date" on Sunday, i said call, and he said call. He said, "you have my number... you know where I am...." as if saying I could just drop by...
I know what the book says...BUT... lol. I have run into guys who've said that if the girl never called them back that they lost interest or confidence. And sure Greg Berandt would say I'm making excuses BUT I'm not so sure anymore. I almost called Tuesday but I resisted and I almost called last night, but resisted again... It will be hard to resist calling him tonight. And even harder not to call and if the conversation goes well, not to say... "do you wanna do something fun this saturday... like go see a movie?.... Spiderman 3 opens this weekend..."
Because I really want to see that movie and dont' want to see it alone or with the girls... know what i mean? Another thing I want to do (on a date) is go to a carnival... we have several of them during the summer months and I haven't gone in ages.....
How's everyone else doing?

Hi Loony. I feel for you, I really do. I can't really tell you what to do BUT you DO want to go see SM 3 AND it is the end of the week so it might not be too bad to call him and see. This is JMO of course. You do what you feel comfortable with. See I told you that I wouldn't be any help. lol
I would LOVE to go to a carnival! I haven't been since I was a child. Now, having BeachGuy and going to a carnival would sure prove interesting! ;)
Nothing has really been going on with me right now just basically doing some home improvement stuff and trying to spend time with my little guy. I hope to get an interview for a job I applied for that I really would like to get. I had a phone interview yesterday but will hear back today to see if I actually get a face-to-face interview.
'A' still leaves me messages in the morning at work before I get in. That is okay but every other day he wants me to call him back. He is still in denial about the whole thing I'm afraid. There are times when I feel sorry for him but there are other times where I get so angry because I feel like he keeps checking up on me...and he does. I'm like, dude, my business is none of your business now so go away! Ugh....
Other than that, my life is pretty low key right now. lol
Good luck on what you decide to do Loony!
Jennifer
I think you should wait for him to call. I looked up your last report because I almost got this one confused with the one from the church bus:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlsolomother&msg=9927.1&ctx=128
It seems that you do run into him and he has run into you and recently called. I think you have to wait and see.
I just got an email from one on match - he winked and then he emailed a quick note. I emailed back and he waited a few days to reply - which is okay - but he just wrote how busy he is with his kids and then answered a question. No questions for me. So I think I am going to sit on my hands, too. He is a little far away and very busy with his kids, which is okay, but I just have sort of a lukewarm feeling about his enthusiasm to want to get to know me or push it foward.
If you sit on the step and wait an even better one can come along - or that one may call. Just my .02 - maybe you will think of something clever. I don't think anything bad can come from going to the movies alone - I do that a lot and even get to chat up some cute guys while standing in line.
Well- if you want to see the movie then get proactive about it!