The first date from a man's perspective
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The first date from a man's perspective
| Sun, 03-09-2008 - 6:31pm |
Here are some things I thought I would throw out about first dates and how I would look at things:
- If I pick a woman up and open up the car door for her, I would look to see if she made an attempt to open mine. I understand alot of cars open automatically but I would look to see if she still tried to open my door
- I just saw it as an indicator if she was a considerate woman
- I've dated all kinds of women and am open-minded but I just want a woman to be honest with me. If she lied I would not call her back
- There may be a legitimate reason but I generally would view that as a reason not to call her back or cut the date short. I either turned my phone off or if I had a reason (being on call 24/7 like I was at my last job) I would tell her beforehand so she wouldn't view me answering the phone as being rude
- Makes me think she still like her ex; I'm more interested in hearing about what she likes, what her passions are, what her goals and dreams are, etc

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OOOH - these are good - thank you for sharing.
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The only comment about the phone is that she might have it on for kids. But I guess that is a good point and something to bring up if we have kids that might be calling.
What is your opinion about the bill?
number three on this board is legit, because if you are dating a single mom with kids, our phone ALWAYS stays on in case of an emergency. Otherwise, yes, I agree. It goes two ways.
If I like the guy, I will open the door for him. If I don't, I won't and I look for guys to always open my doors. Unfortunately, it's becoming a rarity.
Last night, 'the widower' and I were having a beer and I served him first and made sure his was always a little more fuller then mine. He mentioned how he noticed that and thought it was a mom thing. I said no, it's a german thing: you take care of your man first, before you take care of yourself (what I didn't mention is that it goes vice versa with the guy and the woman).
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