First date went well....second date is..

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First date went well....second date is..
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Fri, 03-18-2005 - 9:38am

Wow!

My first date with J (from e-harmony) went really well. We had dinner and talked....for like 2 hours. We pretty much talked about everything. Work, kids (mine, she has none), relationships, divorces, etc.

After we decided to go see a movie tonight.

Yippee! This one is not a one-date-wonder!

Brian

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Fri, 03-18-2005 - 11:42am

OH Man...do you think the phrase "boiled in oil" would mean much to him? ROTFL!!!


Honestly, I didn't expect THAT kind of comment at all. I guess I figured that when he decided to sleep with the "date" that he'd drop the "FWB". That was my expectation.

Becky

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Fri, 03-18-2005 - 2:56pm

You sound like a typical guy to me and I mean that in a good way. The stereotype that men are just out for sex, is just a stereotype. While they might be more inclined to sleep with a women they don't really like, they would gladly trade that for a chance at a real relationship with someone they care for.

Mostly, I've heard men say they "thought" about being players. The ones who are recently divorced say that a lot. I think they decide that's not too easy or desireable and go searching for something better.

Best wishes.

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