fishing trip this weekend!

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fishing trip this weekend!
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Mon, 10-13-2008 - 12:09am

O.K., so I was all bummed because my hot young summer fling is apparently not as much in love with me as my ego would prefer. Really, would I want to move to his state? No, and I was tripping big time anyway. He got too freaked out for me and shows his age. I have been talking to a new guy I met from my dating website all weekend, and he is really funny and smart and cute looking, judging by his picture. His last note said he is interested in coming down here. So I said (of course) if he does, I will show him the sights.


Now, my M.O. is to back way off with contacting him because I am way too busy during the week. I feel much better though, it's a great boost to the ego to find a new fun guy to talk to.


Taking romantic chances is SO hard for me! SO hard! And my boys think any man that comes around is going to be their new dad. Some times this summer when I thought about getting serious with another man, I thought I don't really want to since we are such a tight little family the three of us and introducing a new guy might be alot of extra work for me. Boyfriends/husbands can be so demanding.


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Mon, 10-13-2008 - 12:25am

VERY cute family. Your boys look like a fun handful! I bet they take after you ;-)

Mark





We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb







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Mon, 10-13-2008 - 12:28am

Sounds like things are moving along typically for OLD - you win some, you lose some. & then you always come across ones who seem great, then they just up & dissapear!

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Mon, 10-13-2008 - 10:13am
Thanks you guys! One of my challenges personally with dating is for sure how much more complex it is now that I have my boys. I think the kids saved me from seeing my summer fling alot more since I don't like being away from them much, and this paced things in a way that has made that a little less painful when it's become clear it's not happening. His loss anyhows since I am a great catch. :) I definately don't want them to remember how many "uncles" they've had when they are adults, and they don't understand me not marrying each man they meet, and know nothing about grownups and the whole sex thing (come to think of it, either do I really). :)