FOB DID IT AGAIN...
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| Mon, 02-20-2006 - 1:24pm |
So he had asked to take Damian somewhere today, he even called me last nite to confirm and to have him ready by 9, well...he never showed up, i changed and took the baby to the mall, since he wanted to go bye-bye =(.....then he calls me at 11:40 supposedly him and his brother got pulled over and searched, blah,blah, i told him to forget it, that it's not the first time he promises Damian something and then doesn't deliver so I made plans with him and that's that....from now on we're sticking to the visitation schedule.....
then my no date guy....well he called me yesterday, turns out his dad went to visit him from mexico...then he asks me flat out (finally), so what days can I see you, so I said every other weekend, and maybe tuesday and thursday b/c sometimes I get out of school early and my mom watches Damian until 10......he even said that I can just bring him with us, that he has no problem with that and that he wants to see me .... (but I wouldn't do that)I said yeah call me whenever thinkin' he might not even call,funny thing I read my horoscope last nite after he called and it said something like first impressions shouldn't always count it's the one's after that really matter and how some people deserve second chances LOL!!! I'm taking that as a sign, we'll see if we see eachother soon, who knows maybe I'll get my date after all...hm....

Definitely stick to the visitation rights until he learns to be responsible about them. Searched? Strange? What gave the cops the impression he needed to be searched? If that were the case, I wouldn't want my child going with him anywhere.
As for the other date guy. Did he say he was going to call and didn't? I don't think it should take more then a minute to be courtious and let you know he was in town. Go slow and watch him carefully. My number one RULE: Anyone that doesn't take my precious time as a single mom in consideration, is not the person for me.
So when have you decided to see him?
Wow, two hours and forty minutes for a search!?!
I think you did the right thing with FOB this time. He has to learn that his schedule is not the only one on the planet.
With regards to the guy who is talking to you on the phone, I agree with your attitude - only time will tell to show you his actions. But so far he has a "whatever" - in other words, prove to me that you really are into me and that you will do what you say you are going to do.
Keep us posted on all - good to hear from you!