Forgot to mention....

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-06-2003
Forgot to mention....
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Thu, 02-03-2005 - 12:34pm

He is somebody who I used to work with.

I recently left the job and he actually called me at home to find out why I was leaving the job and to talk to me (he got my # from the work directory). So by then I got the clue he liked me in order for him to do that (I don't talk to this guy outside of the professional environment). That is why I decided to ask him out, besides the other stuff.

It is just strange and I can't put it together. I find it hard to believe after only knowing this guy 2 months in a professional environment he would feel that close to me.

I think anybody else would have thought the same thing. Yet, he is dating somebody (so he claims).

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-30-2003
Thu, 02-03-2005 - 1:27pm

Maybe he told you about the girlfriend and hoped you would say something like....oh, that's not a problem.

I've had married guys do that to me before. Be flirty, mention the wife, and pick up the flirting again to see if I'd go for that sort of a thing.

But, still the guy you're talking about sounds weird and like a stalker.