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Four days...
| Tue, 08-19-2008 - 6:38pm |
The ex is taking the girls to the beach for four days when I'm NOT working... omg, what am I going to do with myself? LOL
The first thing I did was check Medic's schedule... and of course, thats his weekend with his kids, and since we havn't "gone there" yet, thats a wash.
I guess it'll be spring cleaning time? Lol... wish I could spend the rare time with someone special though :/

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Aww shucks!! What timing, huh?
How are things going with Medic since the talking? I wonder if he can escape the kids for an afternoon one of those days?
I dunno..
He's really made it clear that he's trying to watch his minutes which is the reason for fewer calls and sweet text msgs.
Why does everyone avoid Cricket? (I know its not everywhere in the US) but if you're not a traveling person its awesome. I have unlimited everything for 55.00 a month!
Anyway, we were both off Monday and he sent me an I miss you text, and that he was going to try to find a way over. I even sent him a text in the afternoon "You're missing the funnel cakes!" lol. Around 6pm I got a text saying "Can't make it over, I'm sorry. Have a great night". I sent him a text back saying "See ya in a month". I know, I know.. I have got to learn to curb my serpent like responses.
As of right now neither of us have an available day to see eachother until the 2nd week in Sept. Unless he can squeeze some time in after a clinical day or class day.
Maybe its time to date HC again? I wasn't feeling it with him.. but maybe I should give it more time feeling the both of them out? Who knows. HC ticked me off with his "to busy for you" lifestyle too though. We were supposed to go out one night.. planned it for a week, and he said to call him in the afternoon to make our plans. I called and he was in Greensboro! (an hour or two away). And he was like wow, not sure if I can make it back before 7. Get a text from him at 8.. sorry still in g'boro. I'm like WTF? So yah, when people can't make time for me and I'm not important to them its a huge huge turn off.
ITA.
Although I understand people have and should keep having a life of their own...a relationship is not going to get off the ground if you don't make some time sacrifices. Sure Medic might be busy but you know, I have the feeling that if a guy is ready and wants something to work.. he will make those sacrifices and make time. I hate to say that because I know you really like Medic. He just does not seem to be. as Judy would wisely say" right here right now" ready. You know?
I see no harm in seeing other guys..HC or otherwise. You certainly are not obligated to wait around for weeks until Medic can
"So yah, when people can't make time for me and I'm not important to them its a huge huge turn off."
I agree. When you are only asking for a quick response or some time together once a week or so, and they can't do it, because they are soooo busy, it is a turnoff to me too. After all, isn't this all about being WITH someone?
Well Medic called tonight and was his quirky silly keeping me on sharp and on my toes as usual lol. I missed him just being normal and non-stressed. When I first met him I told you all I had a love/hate relationship with his sense of humor.. I think I'm getting a bit used to it now.
Tonight.. random question he blurts out in the middle of me talking just to try to stump me in some way:
Him "Do you think I'm handsome?"
Me: "Well, thats a silly question. A cruel woman that never wanted to see you again would say no, so what do you think?"
Him: "Well you just never told me"
Me: "Well, if you behave yourself maybe someday I will"
So the conversation moves on to politics.. in the middle of his ramble I said "Ya know you're kinda handsome" lol.
I enjoyed the typical silly conversation with him tonight.. I like Medic for being light hearted, silly, and quirky with me.. when he stressed out it just all caught me off guard.
Ok, confession...
I decided to change that story up a bit so it didn't come across crude, but the story just isn't funny with "do you think I'm handsome?" lol
The truth is that in the middle of me talking he interupted with "Do you think I have a nice A$$?" LOL
He's really made it clear that he's trying to watch his minutes which is the reason for fewer calls and sweet text msgs.
That seems like a LAME excuse. My cell plan charges me like $40 for 400 texts a month. Oh ... & EMAIL is FREE!
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