Freinds with an ex-(okay)
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Freinds with an ex-(okay)
| Tue, 07-20-2004 - 4:44pm |
Whats your opinion about being freinds with an ex? Not a father/mother to your kids because you have to maintain some sort of freindship with that person. Im talking someone that you dont have that tie with. Would you care if your significant other was freindly with an ex. Or are you freindly with an ex?

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(((((Min))))), I am soooo sorry!
I STILL feel like an idiot. Where in the world was MY intuition????? Have ALL of the last 13 years been a sham, was there ONE SINGLE GENUINE MOMENT or were they all lies? I'm so hurt, I DO feel betrayed, I feel disillusioned. Wife's intuition was DEAD ON. I never knew she questioned him or had ANY issues with me, at all. I genuinely thought of Arse and her as a friend, and I would never want to do anything to make their marriage difficult.
Arse called my cell today and left a voicemail that said "sorry I made such a huge arse of myself on Saturday night and that you got drug into the middle of my marriage mess . . . call me, let's do lunch and work this out." I will NOT be calling him back. I'm totally flabberghasted that he has THE NERVE to call me and ask me to lunch and to "work this out." WORK WHAT OUT??????
After thinking about it for a few nights and talking to TT about it alot, I emailed Wife this morning that I was sorry for any part I played leading to Saturday night's events, but that I wanted her to know I have NEVER had any sort of inappropriate relations at ANY time with Arse, and that I had no intention of speaking to him again. I told her I would be willing to answer any of her questions and that I would not contact her again unless contacted by her, first. And you are right. She's married to a total loser. And she has 4 kids with the total loser ranging in age from 11 to 4 months . . . . she doesn't work, she has no family, her best friend just moved to Germany with her military husband for the next year . . . . I feel terrible for her.
Mindy
http://cosmosandcranium.blogspot.com/
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